Hi everyone, glad to be here finally with some experience and results for all of you.
Now, as we ALL know (new people and experienced ones I assume) the magickal path is a difficult one, specially in the beginning when one is all lost, confused, putting all energies to spells, and the most important one and difficult, TIME, patience.
I used the law of attraction (which has worked for me many times, no tools) to attract a NEW man but since I was already caught up in all that magick world, spells, (on someone else that seem not to work) I couldn’t get out and when I asked for this man I mentally desired for us to have our own life and funny enough for him to date other women since I wanted to test spells and if everything was good and dandy well what’s there to test!
difficult situations are where we learn more.
But oh boy, does the Universe bring you what you ask!
I met this person 2-3 months later and we hit it off immediately, he took me out of the depression from my ex and I was totally in love with this one, yet, we fought, argued, and of course, we were not in a relationship and he was seeing other people it seems between our breakups.
So here I go again, with candle spells to test things.
My candles would turn black and I was a complete novice, I would light one and that’s it,
usually putting all intention in just one candle.
He would come back after a month, it was like that for months, since we would argue again.
Either way, 6 months and he would not forget me, he would come back again.
Then he met someone else and I was so hurt I ended everything and he had also moved to another city.
Through my Tarot readings I always saw that he was in pain, not letting go of me and still single, dating but nothing would come out.
This is a difficult case! due to time, which also means MAGICK does WORK
then I started reading and learning more about Hoodoo and Candle Magick and realized I had also been doing things wrong. So there I go again to TEST things again.
A WHOLE YEAR that I have not seen him in person (yet he reached out to me all up to March and Tarot showed he had not forgotten about me all up to October still devastated) but see, a whole damn year without us seeing each other with tiny communication over text.
Difficult case, huh? well, since I was already in this world of Hoodoo and Magick and most are asking “is it real?” " does it work?" … I said to myself, well now with my new knowledge let me test things again.
So now instead of one candle for everything, I did many candles to attack the situation through different areas, now using natural herbs for added energy, now meditating and instead of emotionally chaotically just talking to the candles and petitions I would calmly visualize until I felt I reached “aether” and the sub-conscious.
I did a blockbuster, one “come to me” candle that would not light for the life of me, thought it was the candle, did a second one, same thing. Amazing how fire does tell you!
I did tarot readings to see the problems, there was another woman! nothing serious it showed
but then added a “break up” candle… to my surprised, she blocked him 3 weeks from when that candle started! … then I did “think of me” and that one was good, after the “think of me” then
the “come to me” started taking force.
Then PUM!
On Valentine’s day, this man whom I have not seen in a whole year, who hates me for things I said (a lot of resentment) and even has me blocked, started creating all these fake profiles on FB to access mine! and then sent me a love note. He was clearly desperate and drunk, sent one at 3am the night before Valentines, during valentine’s day and again at 2am that night with more fake profiles.
How I know it was him, these are the same profiles that sent me friends requests weeks after we fought months back. Those profiles are also currently removed by FB with “unavailable until we verify users information” …fb now removed them.
So, if you are a guy, well, what do you think? I think that after a whole year for a man to do that I am definitely on his mind, and he was clearly now with another woman. He misses me
and thinks of me.
The PROBLEM…geeesh!
If I had done things how I did them now months back things would be different, I would have removed the obstacles and resentment and we would all be together and happy because love was there.
BUT
I am DRAINED… I am at a crossroads due to feeling so tired now.
A whole year hoping, wanting, doing, and now finally I see major results, because this was truly shocking, this behavior specially after a year.
Even “professionals” I’ve seen on Youtube say that they pick clients and that if it’s been over 6 months without communication it’s over and too difficult.
Well, I was able to get a guy to go mad and obsessed after a whole year.
He did this, BUT has not texted me, or communicated directly with me.
Tarot shows he is still holding off, still has resentment but not over me yet.
Should I continue??? what is your experience!
I know that many of you have been through similar situations where you are just drained, spent money on stuff and tools (candles, etc) put so much into each, then waiting and waiting for even months,
now things start to move, also considering that I was a total novice then and now, not an expert but doing things differently that are working… but
his stubbornness kills me, hurts me and just almost let’s me feel I should leave all this altogether and go back to my material reality.
What STRONG spells do you recommend for a stubborn target? his emotions and passions are there.
Not getting through to his head and actions.
Maybe is a matter of time.
I am still a novice as I said, my spells might still not be what they should be.
I thought about contacting a spirit Pomba Gira Maria Padhilha, but I am afraid.
ANY advice is HIGHLY appreciated for all those that have been through the path and experiences for years. Thank you so much and I send you much love and energy to your endeavors. 
