I got tired of waiting. I did a slight shortcut, based in previous work.
We stopped on page 46, “The Dead Who Haunt Us”, but the title seems silly to me, since.they have to work hard.to.disturb me, but they’re just an evocation away from potential servitude. Not how I roll, typically, but you know.
I got the nudge from Hel to continue, since, due to family medical stuff, I likely wouldn’t make it to the graveyard until Saturday. What was wrong with my link to this other graveyard, she implied. Fair enough.
I have physical and energetic links to several graveyards. You can think of them as a combination of a servitor of my energy laid there and a binding ritual, where, instead of uniting two lovers, I create an energetic link to the graveyard. Set the intent that you power this link and that you will activate it as needed, so you don’t get flooded or interrupted by it in case there’s a funeral near it or similar. Here, I’ve used it to access the place AND the energies, as it is one of the graveyards fueling my “dead” area with Death energies.
I used Findagrave.com and selected my location. Then, I simply hit “search” and was pleasantly surprised that a name, of any sort, wasn’t required. It came back with a list. We should address something…
There are some paradigms that believe souls only last so long without joining doing something else to move on. Having seen spirits in 6,000 year old burial grounds that hadn’t seen a fresh grave in a thousand years, I don’t subscribe to this. I’m not going to say all of those spirits were cognizant and not just replays (most were replays, looking back), but similar Current Era, interactions happened in Hawaii that were hundreds of years old. Some were still cognizant. This happened again tonight. So, let your practices guide your beliefs here and not blanket teachings. Well, you do you. Imma do me.
Back to it. I got Hel’s nudge again when I came to a name. I started.reaching put and realized the spirit was still there, waiting for…whatever… I felt like that’s simply what he felt “Death” was. Kind of puzzling, but all right. This was my spirit. Dante said the birthdate and name was to be used as a sigil. The death date was just as good. In truth, just like with living targets, it’s the combination that allows you to zero in on their specific energies.
In the book, this is done at the gravesite. This particular cemetery has cameras and motion detectors, so the typical mood-setting midnight run wasn’t going to cut it. And in case I haven’t beaten it to death, don’t leave unattended burning candles. Ridiculously stupid.
The candles are supposed to automagically let the one spirit find a way back to you, but he seems to think all the other spirits are idiots. Or somehow tricked into paying attention to the flour and alcohol offerings, since everyone becomes a lush and craves raw dough when they die. If the flour had been used for something productive, it would be different. In other words, these are typical offerings - and largely not needed, if you have a working relationships with a Death entity. If that isn’t your thing, I guess it’s raw dough in the morning dew.
This is, essentially, just another evocation. You have your sigil/symbol. You’re opening it and calling the spirit forth.
I didn’t use the mantra when I called. I used intent and gentle calling, no force. The purpose of using a large graveyard is the better chance of finding a willing one. A willing one makes the job a lot easier. In this case, I had used my intuition as I scrolled down the names, confirming the hit with Hel. Later on, I did get a confirmation from the spirit that the mantra did work, but it needed repetition and I could tell that, since I wasn’t adding my driving desire/need to it, that it along is not enough, if the spirit resists.
Sorry, back to the process. We had the name and energized the remote link. Let me switch to my notes here.
I re-energized the link between the cemetery and myself and the link between the cemetery and my dead space. I made it glow like a beacon. Having connected to it, them to him, talking to.him to follow my voice through the link. I already had an energetic connection and could’ve forced it, but why?
He came quickly and this was likely due to the connections. In my calling of him, I forgot to use the mantra.
I invited him into my space, gave him the rules, and lit some incense for him. I told him he hadn’t been forced because I needed him for only a short while. I then said, with Hecate and Hel present, that I would likely free him when done with the book. I couldn’t promise it, as I would enslave him if he caused harm to my family. I stated I didn’t think that would be an issue and then agreed to release him if that didn’t happen. I lanced my finger and place thick drops of blood on Hecate’s statue and Hel’s skull as a binding of that.
I also promised to not desecrate the graves of him or his relatives (easy promise) and offered to curse the hell out of anyone that did, if given the signatures from Hel or Hecate.
This was where I realized I’d forgotten the mantra.