Ok before everyone thinks I am jumping on the moralistic bandwagon, it’s actually totally the opposite. When I first came here I started asking how to do baneful stuff to someone and through messages a lot of people told me that I needed to seek help to deal with this person in a mundane way etc etc etc. My point at that time as it is now is - you don’t know what my reasons are, what I have gone through, what I will continue to go through and what I know I will go through in the future. You have no idea and no I am not going to spend ages going through all the reasons. I came to the point where I feel my way forward to a better future is through this. I can provide justification for my own benefit. Case in point: one person I am targeting works and owns a business in the same area (finance) I am trying to get work in. It’s not that big a place so a lot of people know each other or through someone else. I was seeing this guys partner when they were separated but he thinks I am the reason for the separation. 5 years and he still has it in for me. Through a friend I know I lost out on a job simply because he rang someone he knows at that firm and bad mouthed me. I ended up giving up trying to find work in that field and going back to what I had done before. Only now I am injured I have a limited amount of time I can continue doing this work so I went back to university to get better qualified and make it easier to get a job in finance. There is nothing anyone can do about this guy because there is no proof. I need him gone before I finish uni so it doesn’t screw up my chances. I lost a job I had because he called my boss. I have had it with trying any other way. This guy is getting cursed, what you saw is just part of my justification and reasoning. There is way more. It took 5 years to push me to this point, I don’t need someone trying to change my mind or tell me to talk to someone. Move from where I live. Why should I? I like it here.
My point is, no one knows someone else’s reasons or what they use as justification. At the end of the day only you have to live with yourself. It’s ok to ask someone are they REALLY sure they want to go through with it. But take what they say as their decision, don’t try to change their mind and if you don’t want to help, stay out of it. Yes I sometimes tell people mundane ways of doing things like weightloss but it’s only because long term they need to know for their own sake how to manage their weight because if they just keep asking for the help of the same entities then they will get pissed off sooner or later. I know others will give information on whatever entity.