There is, but you will need to be aware of this need and not - no offence - caught up in a fantasy of non-consensual control that may actually turn out to be horrific, I mean if you’re familiar with BDSM you will understand that boundary as it exists between people, and not only are spirits no different, they are even LESS likely to understand (or, frankly, care - IF you give out heavy vibes of being willing to give up all control) than a human.
If you lay out cards saying “eat me” deep in the jungle, speckled with your own tasty blood, and the tigers show up, it’s too late to change your mind - also, spirits can hack your mind in subtle ways once given root control of your sex drive and other aspects and make you THINK you are enjoying the steady encroachments, so as with doing a really heavy BDSM scene, set the boundaries in a sober and separate state, so that you’re not trying to make wise decisions when your mind is flooded with all kinds of chemical and emotional changes.
I can’t really give you much advice on specifics, but I will recommened you read this post, though note that @succupedia’s views may (as I understood this reply on here) differ, so as with everything, take what seems sensible to you and discard the rest: