I’ve been going out with this person and we really like each other but he is “scared” of commitment. He truly likes me, I have no doubt about it, it’s also not a fucking around situation. I just know he has no much experience in dating and his only experience wasn’t very good and he felt a bit rejected. I want to know how to make a spell to clear his thoughts and he feels more secure and actually be in a relationship with me. We already see ach other every week, we are close, he just doesn’t feel ready for a relationship although we already live one, but for me the reassurance of the title is important and I want to make him my boyfriend.
*Edit: I don’t intend to make him obsess with me or anything, I actually believe that if it’s not meant to be then it won’t be. But I want clarity and honesty with what’s truly inside.
Im really feel good when im with you and i would like try to move this one step ahead. If you need more time i give it to you. (Now comes the little “haha” to give a feel of relax and fun). And if we last only 3 days maybe we win a new guiness record hahaha. (Now, looking down, slowly) I am a person who preffers regret for what I try and not for what i dont.
We’ve talked about it briefly, I said we move as we are in a relationship and I’ve asked why exactly he doesn’t want to be in one and he said that it’s just his gut feeling that even before he met me he was not open for anything romantic for at least 2 more years and that if we end up dating then it is what it is. The root of it all it’s insecurity, for both sides I guess.
Give him the reason because he need to be with you, give to, a very little feel that he can miss you (obvious, one cant be waiting for who knows many time) if he continue acting like a non blood plant.
But the 1,34 cent for the magick. I dont know much about spells, but maybe asking Dantalion (or similar spirit in your path) for a little push.