Yeah I’m about to experiment with Servitors now along with the other stuff I’m doing!
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It worked just not in the way I expected. Both occasions brought opportunities with the girls but when I didn’t act on it, everything went down the toilet. Actually I’m glad it didn’t work out I just wish I could’ve gotten a hook up or something lol.
Probably wouldn’t do it again as my current partner is amazing
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Sorry folks
I don’t think I’ve got it right for it’s intended purpose for me
And there’s some really good comments on here that I don’t think deserve being lost, especially @TheMagi
@Lady_Eva is it ok to lock while I figure out editing it to it being useful and not wasting people’s time voting?! 
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Definitely agree with this! You can just put closed temporarily in the title maybe?
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@dagar I can’t edit it anymore rn I don’t think…
I could just close it
But I feel like it’s wasting people’s time who’ve bothered to answer and comment
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Oh then let’s just wait for eva🥰
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Oh but it is still a good discussion as it is though. Maybe there’s a way to do the poll slightly differently or multiple polls from different angles.
To follow what has been said, love magick is usually complex because people are always in a state of flux and you never know what’s coming around the corner, concerning everything and anything else not connected to the love magick that you are doing.
That and your own internal state as well as the other person’s may need attention as @TheMagi has explained.
I think this is true. I say it’s complex because you might never know if a problem is all in you yourself or the other person, most likely it’s a combination of both.
You might do a lust working and it works but stays inside the other person’s head and they might not let you know, either that or they blindside you while they try to work out what’s going on.
The magick still worked but didn’t shift things enough for you to see it how you wanted to see it, and that might be down to your, or their confidence or some other internal issue.
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Correct me if I’m wrong but it sounds like using loa in tandem with love spells might be a good way to maybe avoid some of those complexities no?
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Possibly. Also sometimes you just gotta put in actual work. You can do love and lust spells on someone but if you aren’t flirting or complementing them or even hanging out with them then you’re less likely to see results. Maybe they’ll come out and say it but it could also help to just do it or give them a comfortable environment so they can do it.
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My approach to magick is using it as a tool rather than a solution. If you do 100% of the effort everyone else does and then put magick on top is where I think you’ll see the best results 
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Most definitely. I’ve said this before but I want to emphasize the necessity for inner work on yourself. The more comfortable you are with yourself and the better outlook you have on life the more things just seem to fall into place. That doesn’t mean there isn’t actual work still to be done but if, for example, you want an excellent relationship/lover you should work to make yourself the best partner/lover you can be.
I’m saying this a lot because It is only now that I’ve seen the importance of self-work. I was, and still am, very result-oriented but found that neglecting inner work makes life a tad harder.
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A great example from my life is my weight and cleanliness. When I started to work on my mental health and started loving myself I started caring about my weight and keeping my Room clean. Its like there was a trickle down effect from my mind to my body then the world around me . The mind is the source of a lot of our problems and working on it is a good endeavor!
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I think I will chance it and say that love magick ALWAYS works but other conditions that we don’t have a grip on can make it seem like it doesn’t work.
Something else comes to mind. If you can make them feel that they are somehow winning in this game of life just by being with you then they are going to be more open to taking it further.
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Yeah I think that’s what’s needed… nvm
And it is a good discussion
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It really is about changing circumstances. Using a ritual to clear out any possible blockages can be a good idea. Doesn’t mean it’ll always be the fastest though. Still, tackle the problem from different angles. But don’t do a lot of magick out of fear that what you’ve done is not enough as well.
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I also think that getting physically fit and mentally stable (i.e being independent and mature) are the best ways to increase your chances for results. They aren’t necessary but they sure probably help
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I’m mainly focused on being mentally stable. I need to work out some more but I really have no personal interested in being muscular. Maybe a bit more toned but honestly I enjoy my body more now than I use to. Doesn’t mean a bit more work on it wouldn’t help.
Also working out just makes you feel good so it’s important even if you’re like me and don’t want to be muscular (though I could be a bit more fit),
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I think that showing that you can take care of yourself can pay dividends for sure, not everyone will be so concerned about how physically fit you are, usually it comes down to how they perceive your personality and how comfortable they can feel with you.
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True but for me personally I just like the idea of being fit enough to monkey around everywhere and anywhere i go 
also I definitely agree with what you said about personality
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More power to you then man! As long as it is what you want to do!
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