Letter Of Intent - How To Evoke A Succubus/Incubus *update*

Remember it is your intention and will that matters most, the letter should be a physical expression of that, and not just something you would send to a lawyer

(I don’t mean how explicit you write, but put your actual thoughts, desire and lust into the concept)
passion and patience is key

Thank you for sharing. I did this ritual yesterday and she came to me that night. It has been wonderful getting to know her and I’m greatful to Lilith for sending her.


This is very interesting and I will give it a try. I have had the demon lover experience before but sometimes it is hard to tell if it is really happening or if it is just my imagination. Only once did I feel it where there was no break in the connection and I don’t mean to be graphic but he would be gentle and then intensify becoming really rough to the point of the bed squeaking loudly. Anyhow my experience of it was more energy and feeling full. Not feeling penetration per se but feeling full inside of me. But, I would like for it to feel more real. Like poltergeist activity real if you know what I mean. Maybe I could state that in my letter of intent. Anyhow I have rambled enough. Thank you for the post!


Thank you for sharing this. You answer pretty much all of my questions.

Hello, I’m new here as well as new to magic. I just finished performing the summoning and I think it went well. After I said the chant and burned my letter I stood up and I felt alot of tingling below my calf’s but above my ankles, felt like they were being held and I felt a bit dizzy. I left the candle to burn and when I went to sit down on my bed I laid my head against the wall and the right side of my neck felt warmer then cold the warm again, I say that he may have been giving me little kisses on my neck. My body is a little sensitive but I never get any sensations on my neck unless it’s being touched it if I’m listening to an audio of sorts. I’ll be getting ready for bed soon and see if anything else happens. Either way I’m really happy and excited to find out what will happen next also no he hasn’t shown himself to me yet but I’m hoping he’ll do so in the future

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I agree… For example…my incubus partner…touched my hand while I was lighting a diya ( a lamp in hindu spirituality to a dev…hindu god)…he is curious and I was like surprised…he let me know that he would like to participate in activities I normally do…just as a human male partner would…he is very sweet natured. So …no they don’t feel threatened, angry or scared in Temple, church or any other place of worship. Those all ideas are Hollywood nonsense…


Is it weird that I didn’t have to do any of this? When I was reading through this post I was thinking about what kind of incubus I wanted, and i felt like lillith was listening already. I then sat in a meditative position and automatically felt a heavy presence, I hadn’t even stated my request yet.

Some people feel that our succubus/incubus have followed or been with us for a while before we even do our letters. Mine had been watching me for over a year at the side of my bed. Touching, dreams, etc didn’t start in till I did my letter.


You may write…Dear Lady Lilith or Goddess Lilith. All the best👍🏻

Yeah, I remeber that before I even properly knew about succubi, I must have felt her.
I remeber that sometimes I would feel warmth on my arm or when I would go to bed the bed would move up and down as if I was sleeping on someone and they were breathing.


As for mine she couldn’t make physical contact with me due to barrier and shields. Only once the letter was done and after barrier were reworked to allow her passage. But she was there forsure with out doubt in my mind.

Ok so I am new to the forum! I have recently completed the letter of intent for Lilith seeking a relationship with one of her daughters. Also before I go into details of my recent experience I should mention that I am a medium/empath. So while waiting the 30 minutes I picked up feeling while laying there with mind blank. Started to feels small tingles on feet, private area once, and beard/face. Also felt like there was a weight on my chest. But me always being able to describe who or what it was I couldn’t pin point it. Also my hands starts to heat up in the palms like hot hot as if I were holding hot coals from a fire. Had a couple muscle twitches then nothing. Is it bad with my half honed abilities that I can’t depict what it was or who it was? Is my guard up? And idk much of chakras so idk what to do in this stasis that I’m in! Please enlighten me friends! Thank you!!!


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I was in the process when you said so

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So is this subject dead?


I know someone else already asked this, but do you have to burn the letter? A little embarrassed to admit this, but I’m temporarily with my parents at the moment (I’m 25. I know, I know) and I don’t want them to wake up at 3 am and have them asking me, “What in the Hell are you doing?!”

There is a fire pit outside, but it’s not the best. There’s already wood inside and I don’t want a big fire to be noticed by the neighbors. Don’t have a fire bowl either.

I have the intent, even though it’s mostly looking for companionship/a romantic connection. Sex is kinda a bonus I guess.

Anyway, can you keep it under a pillow and try to see them in your dreams? I know it’s not like “OOH A FIRE!” but does it count? Or should I just wait till I move out and get a fire bowl? I really want this to work, even though I can’t burn it.

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@PurpleWitch this is what I do, I am in the same boat as you. I have a park that is 5 mins away with picnic tables, so I take one of the larg serving bowls, an all the other needed stuff. And do it there. Also make an excuse. I’m just got a break up letter from X, I’m going to burn it, and ponder on it for a while. I also say it’s for good luck in my next relationship.

Be blessed, I wish you peace, may you receive your gifts.

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Ok so here is my question. When I perform the intent I did it at 12 am. The witching hour or 3 am is a touchy place for me for the simple reason of empath and such. I am terrified of letting something dark back into my life like in the past. At that time I feel no power to turn something evil away. It scares me tbh. But during the 30 minutes after I felt some touch on toes and forehead. Then after I blew out candle nothing. And the several days after nothing. Is there something I done wrong? The dreams that I have are lucid but nothing like expected. Just normal dreams. Any advice or guidance is greatly appreciated and would help this eager empath!!!