The most successful romantic manifestation of a person I’ve ever had took about 8 or 9 months, maybe up to a year. I didn’t even know about the Law but I was deep in limerence (not something I’d ever want to go through again, but turns out it can be a huge motivator for SATS/SH scenes).
I was obsessed with this guy, or really, my IDEA of this guy, to the point where around 90% of my waking thoughts were about him. If I didn’t see him for a day or if he did something I interpreted negatively (didn’t message me first, took too long to reply to a message) I would spiral into despair. I mean both of those quite seriously and literally; limerence is borderline mental illness, similar to OCD-i, it rewires your brain to have really maladaptive thinking around the object of limerence.
Anyway, my point is, the ONLY thing I wanted to do (and did do) in my spare time was lie in bed or on the couch and listen to music while losing myself in fantasies about this person. I would spend minimum an hour a day, sometimes up to three, with my eyes closed, living through the same imaginal scenarios over and over again, and really living them, feeling all euphoric and losing any sense of space and time in the material world.
After about 9 months of this he confessed his feelings to me, said he couldn’t stop thinking about me, and admitted his thoughts had started to match the same pattern as mine (he would be hurt or upset and think he’d done something wrong if I didn’t seek him out to chat or message him quickly enough, etc. etc.). This only happened after I’d exhausted or satiated myself completely and I was coming out of the limerence fog and starting to focus on other things in my life.
My point is, the Law works, and it doesn’t matter if you have negative thoughts about a situation. If you spend enough time living a subjective experience, your brain will make it happen. Quite literally, on a chemical/reactive/structural level, your brain cannot distinguish between memory, dream/imagination, and “real life”.
You sound like you know how the Law works. Stop asking for advice and start putting it into practice. At a certain point something will click and you will no longer feel the need to ask advice or feedback or even read other peoples’ experiences with it. You’ll just “get” it and you’ll know.