Having already worked with some spirits for this kind of situation, let me give you my 2 cents
Absolutely, this just happened in front of my very eyes, the day I’ve been ultra busy and did not have a single thought about the target is the exact moment when the spirit started to work and the target tried to reach for me.
I would suggest working gradually, you first determine few spirits that would make you ‘‘stand out from the crowd’’ or something similar, you then ACT on your own you cold approach her and you make her notice that she caught your eye in some way or another… And once she knows you a bit, you then start working towards bonding with her, spirits such as Sallos, this will make the whole process so much more effective than waiting for her to message you.
Now IMO, when this magick is very palpable when there’s ‘‘show time’’ after all your rituals/summoning/contracts, is when you get to date the girl she will send you so many signs of interest that you’ll just know 100% that something is working in your favor, materializing your desire to conquer her.
Veil here has provided a huge variety of spirits to work your way trough.
Good luck