Is it possible that some people are lucky from birth ?
good family, childhood, financial security, good results in school, beauty, wisdom, also the first man she fell in love with in her life when she was young, she married him and they have not had any problems so far, everything is going well for them
Is there something that affects this ? everyone else in her family like cousins, aunts, uncles etc. have a lot of bad luck in life, for example problems with money, appearance, work, just everything you can imagine, but she was not just born under a golden star and has it so far
I’m honestly trying to understand it and I’m a little jealous
Yes, it can be possible. There are a lot of superstitions around someone being born under auspicious stars, for example, and it comes from the idea that one’s astrological birth chart determines one’s destiny. In some cultures, expecting parents will seek out a seer to get a glimpse at their child’s future, and will then plan out the child’s life around what they are told.
However, I think Shakespeare said it best in Julius Caesar, Act 1, Scene 2, when Brutus was complaining about being born a servant, his friend Cassius tells him, “Men at some time, are masters of their fates, and the fault, dear Brutus, is not in our stars, but in ourselves that we are underlings.”
Some people just live a charmed life. I doubt the person you describe doesn’t have any problems, it’s just that they don’t let them affect them.
Luck isn’t accidental. It comes at the Price of Environmental Stability. Think of it like “The Matrix” movie.. some people are like fixed programs in the matrix that keep aspects or greater parts of the simulation running. In real life, their very existence are an “Anchor” that holds certain things togethor.
Again, the parents have constructed material means for the child to be born into, for a planned pregnancy.
Physically speaking, DNA as we all know determines physical factors.
As for others, they have things that are unresolved, and the child born into that will have material things harder. As for DNA factors, most of us have cousins that are not as handsome/pretty, not tough or tall, etc. This means certain factors cannot be resolved, so we must compensate in a different way.
And sometimes you just have to accept things as they are.
In that sense “luck” is a matter of perception. It can seem lucky if your material/ physical life is all smooth sailing and seems to be taken care of for you, without real struggle. But in a spiritual sense, hardly any real hardship in a lot of cases also means a mental and/ or spiritual drought of some sort.
If you believe in reincarnation, there is also the notion that your soul “chooses” a certain situation. I’m not saying your entire life is mapped out from the start, but a soul usually chooses the general experience it wants or needs to have the next lifecycle. So although your friend should definately be considered pretty lucky. Considering reincarnation and karmic laws. She also choose/ attracted the family, region, astrological influences etc. to be born into.
Apart from all this, some people are also just naturally gifted to alter their reality and attract what they want and need without much trouble.