Many years ago i was introduced to some aspects of chaos magic mainly servitors and sigils, being mislead through my own beliefs thinking i knew better or what i was really doing, i decided to create a servitor based around lustful manipulation. At the time my language was somewhat ambiguous, never direct, precise or to the point, left quite a bit of room for interpretation.
After neglect of the servitor it become somewhat conscious which plagued my life. At the time i was with a significant other which she copped the brunt of the havoc.
If any women would acknowledge me in any way even as simple as a look or hello, crazy fights would ensue.
Sleep sex started to occur one night i woke up to going down on my girlfriend without knowing, constantly grabbing her night after night.
After some time i had help to stop the possession, but it would still plague mine and the GFs dreams attacking us in the dream state having to constantly fight it off.
this could come down to sloppy work without giving direct limits and intentions, so i was wondering how much work to put into limits, can and cant do’s, and intentions? is there putting too much work in? leaving no room for growth?