People here should contact them with cool ideas and say “Hey let’s do videos.” 
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I’m sorry to say it, but the well known queens would have a hard time being monogamous, just think of all the people performing rituals, wanting a relationship with them, and somewhat achieving that.
her agreeing / being happy with you being monogamous to her, might be different from your perception of it
I would say, focus on the experience, enjoy it and give something back to her.
don’t think about perfoming rituals and contracts that will bind you to her on the first date!
just express your feelings and be truthfull, let the relationship build on that instead.
though I know and understand the feeling of wanting to commit in such a way.
about the names, I feel it can be slightly misleading, I’ve gotten Lilith and Naamah as names from my Succubus too, but I try to focus on just sensing her and bonding regardless of name, though we tend to want a name to make the contact to a person “solid”.
the name she gives you could be her lineage and not the actual name.
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It is naamah. And initially it was a poly relationship
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The spirit in these is alsmot never going to be monogamous unless they;re a child of the goddess/god, or more or less created for you.
They may still want you to be though.
But marriages and long-term things have to work for you both, so make sure to ask for more than you think you may need… 
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Are we talking about succubi and incubi
If they were created specifically for the magician, no, they’ll probably be monogamous, but most known spirits have many, erm, admirers, and also spouses etc among other types of being.
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I have asked for more then i need i spent about 3 hours up to 3 days brainstorming what i needed from her. It was not easy but thorough
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Ok I see. I wasn’t aware that succubi and incubi were created for the magicain.
If you create a succubus from a thoughtform wouldnt it be watered down so to say like not have full conscienceness and second question can you birth a succubus from goddesess like lilith naamah and other well known goddesess?
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Do you have a succubus?
Yes i do
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So what was your problem
Some are, some aren’t, I don’t think there’s any hard and fast rule, some are ancient and may be monoogamous with you, but have had many human spouses.
They will sometimes birth a spirit, you would need to be very piwerful or show strong potential for this to happen, and I weould imagine the consequences of screwing up would be pretty brutal, so you’d need to have a strong contract pre-agreed, andf stick to it - again, not necessarily ruling out family for yourself, just an agreement in advance.
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Im referring to the point that a succubus can indeed be created from well known goddesess like lilith and naamah, because some would like monogamy or assume thats what they get when they start these relationships.
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Hmm okay. So lillith didn’t necessarily make all succubi then
I am actually quite happy with my relationship with my succubus. But the information provided to learn more and more is always appreciated and received with admiration
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Many spirits can make beings that are part of their energy but also distinct.
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I understand
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Lilith created Lilim/Lilin, arguably with Samael, which are a group of Succubi and Incubi and considered the daughters and sons of Lilith. There are other groups, like ones associated with Naamah or other greater demons and then there are spirits created by sorcerers which I would argue are more “succubus/incubus like” than actually incubi/succubi. There are also many other spirits and even gods from various mythologies that can act quite sexual and form sexual and romantic relationships with sorcerers and even regular people.
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I think there needs to be more discussion when it comes to relationships within the hierarchy of spirits. Yes there is a serious dark aspect and a danger if you don’t establish boundaries. But there is going to be some differences say if you are in a relationship with an inncubi or succubi versus a demonic prince, king, queen etc.
They have the power to rearrange, destroy your life etc and they may do so and they think they are helping you. Belial and Asmoday for example don’t like my husband. I was very firm with both of them and although Belial didn’t like it he decided he would just make improvements like encourage him to lose weight, go back to school and be more responsible. Nothing that would actually harm him.Belial seems to be fine with it as long as I don’t think or talk about any other guy when we are together
Asmoday spoke casually about my husband like he was a used car or something. He was also very jealous so I knew that it just wouldn’t work out.
Azazel and Lucifuge liked it really rough so I don’t
know what’s going to happen in the future with those relationships. 
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