Yes, that’s what happened to me in my previous post. I felt stupid because the signs to me should have been obvious but they were not really that obvious so I began overthinking everything, trying to figure out why? What did I not do? What am I missing? Blah blah… to the point that even a spirit told me to calm down because my brain was running at 90mph. So you’re right overthinking can cause you to miss what is literally right in front of your face and the more you continue over thinking, the further away you stray from seeing the issues at hand that need to be dealt with.
Failing is not an option, give that a try if you noticed that it seems to be the only thing that proves to be successful right now. I can’t hurt to try that out for a while. I approach everything with an attitude of fuck it, I don’t care either way, yeah I’d love to have that happen but if it doesn’t I’ll live either way. This seems to be working very well for me and some others. I started having way more successes when I adopted that attitude because before, having that insane desire that I could not let go of and feeling as if my world would end if XXX did not manifest in my life, never helped.
It only seemed to chase any possible good outcomes further away from me, and the more I longed for that desire or the more I became upset if that desire did not manifest, the more things went wrong and either manifested but was the complete opposite of what I wanted or nothing happened at all. So adapting a new way of thinking may help you. Give it a try. If not, you can always try something else later on.