If you focus on the other perspective a strong will may even help you, focus on the part that used to be your friend wanting to do so again, the fact that you know he can’t overlook it shows that he at least has tried to do so, therefore focus on the part of him that wants to overlook it and work with that instead.
Lilith has been known to give guidance for situations like this. pray to her and give her an offering and just sit there letting whatever ideas she gives you come to your head.
Ishtars apple spell which I shall paste here “To Win the Love of a Woman
(chant the following three times over an apple or a pomegranate; give the fruit to the
woman to drink of the juices, and she will surely come to you.)
MUNUS SIGSIGGA AG BARA YE
INNIN AGGISH XASHXUR GISHNU URMA
SHAZIGA BARA YE
ZIGASHUBBA NA AGSISHAMAZIGA
NAMZA YE INNIN DURRE ESH AKKI
UGU AGBA ANDAGUB!”
Notice that this one is for a man to a woman, summon Ishtar herself to help you along with the spel, I hear she likes apples too 
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Other than that, I have a few more people in mind, Aphrodite for one.
And now that it comes to mind, why not use everyones favorite mod out for something other than asking people to post intro’s a change? : The Angel Of Lost Things - #2 by Lady_Eva