I did a candle cord cutting ritual to free my energy from a love triangle between me, an ex lover and his current person. The intention was to not think about them and the situation anymore and claim my energy and power back to me.
I used one candle for me, another for him and another for her, wrote initials and DOBs on the candles and set them on my plate in a triangular shape, then put black thread around the candles to symbolize the energetic cords.
His candle was the one that burnt the fastest, it “cried” a lot and the wax formed tumor-like shapes that moved towards her candle without reaching it. The side of the cord between me and him burnt slowly but surely, and the cord between him and her burnt as well but when it burned it made noises and it took a while to burn. The flame was unstable.
Her candle took a bit longer to burn and the wax made a lot of tear-like shapes, some parts of the wax turned black. The thread of the candle was always looking outside of the plate, not towards me or him.
My candle was the one that took the longer to burn but the flame was stable and the wax didn’t turn into strange shapes. The threads between each of the other people and me burned clean and no attachment was left.
What is the symbolism of this? Can someone help me understand? I attached a picture of the final result. My candle is purple, his is pink, hers is orange.
TIA.
