Well. If you live in Mclester, Oklahoma and you go into your kitchen to bake a cake, and it happens to be a day that the Savanna ammunition plant is detonating old military bombs, so your cake falls in the middle, did you not still bake a cake?
It may not have come out as the beautiful cake you wanted, but it’s still edible, it still tastes good.
If you intend to fry over medium eggs, but get a phone call and suddenly realize they are over hard, are the eggs still not nourishment for your body, even if they weren’t the way you preferred?
Not necessarily. I’ve found that when this happens, it’s usually because there is something considerably better out there, and the timing just wasn’t right yet, I didn’t know to look for the opportunity that does come up, and it comes up all on it’s own without me looking for it, so how is that a fail, if I end up with a better job than what I applied for?
I did magic for money when I was in a homeless shelter for 87 days. I ended up with a check for over $2,000 which was about double what I asked for, from my ex- a very unlikely result.
I recently had a scenario wrap up in which what I wanted could not happen- a court case dismissed. Instead I got the very very best result for me, the other person gets fucked in the long run and will never get anything out of me, and I’m barely even inconvenienced from the result as well as I had several things that should have been complicated applictions go through without me even filling out the applications for what I needed.
I call that good results, since I knew out right from the beginning well over a year ago, that dismissing it all together was very unlikely.
It isn’t my job to convince you or anyone else, I simply wrote the article to address this common problem from my point of view, based on my actual experience 