So there are people in my life that are just draining my energy. I got rid of them years ago but then new people keep popping up in new guises and becoming energy leeches.
To give you an example one person I know called my cell ophone 30 times in one day to help them when I was just trying to chill on my day off from work.
To give you an another example my dad rang me to say my hair was too long for a man and I ended up hanging up on him because he ended up ranting about this for 20 minutes
I’ve tried the freezer spell but it hasn’t worked. Any suggestions are welcome
When I do my stuff and don’t want to be disturbed I put my phone in “do not disturb” mode where literally two important numbers can ignore that and I know they won’t call me for bs reason. Tbf, I am nearly permanently in “gtfo” mode for 99.9% of people XD
For live encounters, when I feel the person is draining me, I cut all contacts, stop noticing those people exist, and forget them. Had once a literal leech feeding on me because I used to be less strict about my boundaries. I limited contacts, was “always busy”, then simply stopped reacting to this person.
I’m not sure what kind of magick would help; despite practicing, I first look for the most obvious ways to solve problems, in this case it’s just denying such people access to me. But if I was to do it the magickal way I’d perform cord cutting ritual I devised some time ago. The downside is that I hate to waste energy on people not worth it, but if there’s no other way…
As I starting reading your post, I was going to suggest the freezer spell, but I see that you’ve already tried it…
You could maybe attempt the freezer spell a second time with an even firmer intent this time.
You may also want to listen to these types of subliminals daily and regularly:
As for this, he doesn’t seem to know that in old times, long hair was common among men, and it was not seen as a “feminine feature.” It’s the Romans that first applied a short hair rule because it was more practical for warfare.
And oftentimes, what is seen as “long hair” on a man is not actually long but rather middle length. For man, any length is considered “long,” which is often inaccurate and annoying. For a woman, it’s only past the shoulders, esp. down the chest or down the back that it’s actually considered long.
Show him pictures of Billy Ray Cyrus, Lil Wayne, Prince Jackson, Bigi Jackson, and other virile men w/ long hair. I’m one of those men too.
Boundaries. There is a function on the phone that blocks unwanted callers. Saying no. Saying that enough is enough. I have cut all ties, for example, to my family. I only welcome into my life people whose company I enjoy. Others fly very quickly into the trash. This has brought a whole new joy and freedom to my life. Why use magic when you can do it yourself so simply?
There is no other good way to free yourself from human parasites than climbing the social ladder.
You need to find a job that will allow you to create enough energy in the form of money to pay your rent.
Personally, I would even rather live in a military barracks than live under one roof with my father.
It is worth any money and any sacrifice.
I don’t actually live with my family. I moved out almost 19 years ago and live in my own apartment. The only reason I even spoke to my dad was because I was getting an item delivered to my dad’s property while my flat is being repaired and rather than accept that a package was going to be delivered he spent 20 minutes ranting about the fact that I as a man have long hair.
Mmm… You’ve been out of the family home for that long (two decades), and the only thing he has to say to you is how your hair is “too long for a man”?
I don’t know him, but he seems overtly conservative on that front. What if he had a gay son or a son in adult entertainment?
I highly recommend that you read the book The Book of Soul Retrieval by Enoch. This book describes all methods of protection from basic protection to parasites. In addition, if you work with dark magic, it is wise to always have black obsidian or tourmaline with you.It is also highly desirable to have an amulet with you.Let me remind you that I am a traditional magician and you do not have to follow my direction if you do not feel that way.
Leeches will feed off of an unsteady structure and catch you off guard. Meditate and focus on your worth to yourself. That will render the small stuff unable to touch you spiritually. Those minor inconveniences won’t bother you once you understand you are above them.
Grounding yourself and rebuilding a foundation for yourself will also come in handy to combat them. You could practice this in a million ways, for example you could run your hands under water and breathe deeply to physically and emotionally ground yourself. You can also banish a space or room and simply understand and commit it to memory that you are safe in your place of rest which will no doubt give you some relief. Just believing your are safe can open a gateway for a lot more in your life, especially magickally.
Boundaries against the leeches will also exponentially help against them for if you push them farther away then they lose their grip around your throat. Threaten to cut contact if they don’t do xyz that brings you irritation.
You can call upon a spirit for protection to form a wall between you and them, or you can set up protective circles around you.
Sounds stupid, I know… but just don’t feed them.
I don’t think there are purely magickal solutions if you don’t set the mundane solutions in place as well. Set your boundaries and don’t play their game, if it results in guilttripping and gaslighting.
They are not more valuable than you. There is a limit to how much you can sacrifice yourself in service of others
