Ok I put the same thing in the celebrity discussion. I attracted his shadow self but whatever should still work the same. Make a sigil out of the name. Put bodily fluids on it and burn it. I prefer sexual fluids, that’s just me. Write down specifically what you want and burn it too. Sometimes I’ll write in pencil erase it and make sure the shavings stay on the paper. Fold it up then burn. Scatter ashes in the wind. Be extremely emotional during this process. I was depressed and cried. That person will never go away.