my mother has been controlling me my whole life and i am not in a good enough well paying job to move out of my house or be financially stable
my mother controls
where i am
what time i will be home
who i am with
not allowed to stay with anyone even friends houses
i am 35 years old so i am not a child
has anyone used any demons to get their parents under control?
Under control may or may not be the right word. In my view, this depends on what is causing your mother’s controlling behaviour.
I have had some success in this area. For context, my mother has always done her best to exert control over my life, personal information etc in any way she can.
I recognise that she is the product of her experience. Given how atrocious her own mother was in this regard, she is like her-mother-lite.
I have not lived with her for about a quarter of a century, but for my whole life she still did her best to try to assert control over me where she can, despite the fact that it is not successful as I dont entertain it. But she still tries, in little ways or big. It was at a point that I wouldn’t give her a shred of personal information.
I arrived at the conclusion last year, that the best approach may be to try to unravel the origins of these behaviours, her experiences that caused them and the early traumas that reinforced them.
The first step I took was to pathwork Lucifer (Theodore Rose’s method) just before going to sleep, asking for guidance in formulating the plan.
I found that after that each step just kind of happened intuitively over the following few months.
-Pathworked Raphael (Jareth Tempest’s method) requesting the healing of anything that may obstruct my attempts to heal her problems
-Engaged Cimeries (Gordon Winterfield’s method)- asking to unravel her unconscious fears
-Pathworked Michael (Tempest’s method)- asking for any unbeneficial energy chords she has to be severed, mentally I had a particular emphasis associated with those of her parents
-Engaged one of Keteriya’s 12 custom servitors (the one aimed at unravelling trauma)
-Did a series of pathoworkings from Tempest’s Angels of Omnipotence with various related objectives
And a few other pieces of work. I accompanied all of this with a series of cover remote reiki sessions for her too.
Her behaviour towards me has totally changed. The attempts at prying and controlling have stopped. She no longer tries to treat me like a child.
She even started confiding internal realisations that she had regarding her own behaviour over my lifetime. Many of these related to recollections of her parents in her childhood and understandings of how these had effected her and her subsequent behaviours and way of thinking.
She has changed dramatically.
I no longer dread my monthly lunch date with her.
I won’t bore you with further details. The point I am trying to make through my own lived example, is that sometimes the best way to get someone to stop trying to control you, is to cause the unravelling of the influences that cause them to behave that way.
I don’t know your mother or the causes of her behaviour. So I don’t know if a similar approach would be effective for you. But I feel that its worth giving your consideration as to whether its best to try to control the immediate problem behaviours, or to remove the past influences behind them.
Just my thoughts