I have read through this forum about how long a love spell takes to manifest. However, the emphasis seems to be more on when it’s likely to start manifesting or signs it is manisfesting other than the period between the initial signs and the full manifestation. Can someone share with us his experience or knowledge of what actually happens between the initial stages and full manifestation. I’m looking at how long it takes, additional signs, dos and don’ts etc.
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I do not recommend love spells now.
I did one on my ex then a few months later he got married to someone else although i had a binding spell on him to keep him with me. I have no idea how that went so wrong as hes out the country now and happily married ( cut off all contact with me told me in 2022 never to text again as he had a wife now)
Also done a love binding spell to a guy i was talking with and thought it was going somewhere met him twice and it all went to shit hes now ghosted me and ignores my messages and now my life is a mess in every aspect ( i also dont want him anymore and dont even care about him).
Through this time i actually met some other guy and things were going well but i never did any love spells on him but out of nowhere he has ghosted me now too and it hurts like hell! As i think we were more compatible and he wanted the same things as me and i think some sort of karma has come and f***d me up.
Lost every job i had, lost most of my friends and theres no guys on the scene now i am practically left alone and my mental health has reached rock bottom too.
Please stay away from bindings or love work it only comes back to bite you on the ass at a later stage and i would never wish this s**t on anyone.
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Love spells are a tricky thing if you’re not experienced with them and even then stuff still goes haywire at times. It’s the nature of the beast.
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How long a love spell takes depends on several factors; the castor, the situation, and the spell. One spell could take a week, but with a different castor and situation, the same spell could take 2 months for someone else. Imo, blood spells make the best love spells. Quick, fast, and if you add in a little cayenne pepper, you really seal the speedy deal.
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If you’ve casted one and want to know how it’s going, divination will be your best friend.
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The key is to be specific and have a good understanding of what you’re doing when you start casting spells like this. Otherwise your spell can work a little too well and the next thing you know Prince(ess) Charming has turned into a stalker obsessed with you.
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Dos and don’ts? Keep an eye out for signs it’s backfired, this can manifest in ways like you losing feelings for the target, feeling hyper-fixated on the target, or having nightmares are all signs. But these are the signs that would affect you and these aren’t all of them. And these aren’t a surefire way to know, divination is necessary at this point. If it backfires and you take the blow, cleanse cleanse cleanse.
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Choose your spells wisely because a “love me” spell and an “obsess over me” spell will have different outcomes.
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It’s easier for a love spell to work on someone who’s already got some interest in you. If you’ve got a base to build off of, you’ll have a much easier time than starting from scratch.
BUT If you’re not experienced I recommend working with an entity you trust to do this rather than perform love spells yourself.
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Thanks for your reply.
I do not intend to cast one for myself as i have gone past that but it’s a topic i’m following closely. I have read through lots of threads on the topic but i see a missing link or a grey area in most discussions on the topic. I therefore created this post to provoke the neccessary discussion that will throw more light on some of these areas i think are unclear.
My main target area of study is the period between when all signs point to the beginning of the manifestation of the spell and the time when it fully manifests. I think it is around this period that most love spells get broken or fail to reach full manifestation. Even though no single cause has been established, i think the main thing has to do with the behaviour of the castor such as lusting for results, obssesions and most importantly, misunderstanding of how specific love spells work.
What we do normally hear of is, he’s all over me, calling and texting etc. As a result, most newbies after getting contacts from their targets expect similar thing.
- They start doing the calling and texting instead of letting the target do it forgetting that they feel relieved and happy when you contact them while some even go on to pester them with proposals eventhough most spells are designed to make the target to do so.
- Obssesions when there are no signs, and when it starts working as some spells work on both. I normally hear don’t be obsess and pretend nothing happend. That’s true but, obssesions caused by the spell working on both of you and a little thought of how far your spell is going could be a dangerous combo that can ruin it entirely or prolong its full manifestation. Therefore one demands a clear understanding of every stage about how things are likely to go.
To cap it all, i know of a situation whereby the target kept contacting the caster at least every one week, then to every 6 days, then every 3, 4 days to as low everyday with only a day in-between for a perion of around 6 months all in the name of, “i want see how you’re doing”. Technically it drew them closer and closer until the target released what he’s been suppressing in his heart after about six months. Therefore, if such a success story is shared on this platform in the form of “my target has fallen for me” without how the caster resisted the urge:
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to propose
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to be doing the calling and texting even though she was also made obssesed,
people will ask of that particular type of spell but they may end up ruining it themselves.
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This is because anything can happen, and many things WILL happen. There’s no way to time a love spell because every situation is different and every new event changes the odds in unpredictable ways.
I don’t do love spells because i noticed most people who ask for them aren’t motivated by love at all; they’re actually into forcing nonexistent attractions to happen on command. That’s not love, it’s entitlement. It’s no different than a guy expecting you to put out because he’s nice to you or he bought you something on a date. It’s creepy and annoying, and yes, both genders do it.
Even when the spell is successful (and i do have a couple of successes under my belt), the person usually ends up realizing they don’t actually want the other person at all, they just wanted to control the situation or the other person’s choices. In some cases, i noticed the people i did the work for LOST RESPECT for the person when they finally had them. At that point i said i’m done with this shit and since then i’ve not done ANY love magick for others or even for myself. That’s not love, it’s a bind and it’s about having power over someone, which i disagree with on principle.
Keep in mind i don’t have a problem with S&M or power exchange relationships. I just recognize there’s a difference between kink and love, and you should never confuse the two. Dating and courting are not the same as kink, and none of them are the same as entitlement.
With that moralizing out of the way,
Based on the love magick i’ve done that really hit, my personal feeling is that the full manifestation happens when it stops being about me and you and starts being about US.
In every real relationship, a 3rd person thoughtform develops that is the combination of the 2 people involved. That person is the US in the relationship, and that US lives or dies based on how much energy each person puts into it.
When 2 people stop thinking of themselves and start putting the US first, to my way of thinking, the relationship begins there.
Women are much more aware of the US than men are. You hear it all the time in arguments, when women say things like we were doing so good but now we’re falling apart. They feel it inside that at least one of them has stopped giving energy to the US and it is literally starving to death for lack of nourishment.
The US is separate from the children in the union and has to be fed daily or it starves and dies. When the US is no longer there, the relationship is gone.
This is only my own view and i’ve never heard anyone else explain it this way, but when i’ve done successful love magick, there’s always that feeling of teamwork between the 2 people involved and the US is very strong. I noticed that. I’ve also noticed when others talk about love magick, it’s usually one-sided with only one person chiming in, and they never mention the US thoughtform, so i usually understand that relationship is on rocky ground and won’t last the test of time. Sadly, i’m usually right about that - too many people who ‘succeeded’ at love magick come back weeks or months later saying it’s over.
I now believe a relationship is founded on consideration for another person, and that consideration has to be unselfish. Even parenthood can be selfish - if you’ve ever had a possessive parent or had to fight a custody battle, you know full well how selfish some parents can be. But love for another person can never be selfish. Selfishness kills love every time - and i hate to say it, but MOST of the love magick i’ve come across is built on selfishness, so i don’t expect it to work, or even if it does work, i don’t expect it to last.
Taking the US thoughtform further
The US has to be based on the other person, warts and all. I noticed that when people try to project an US onto someone else based on their fantasies of what they want to turn the other person into rather than on the person themselves, those relationships become manipulative as the person is constantly being forced to change to fit a role that may not have anything to do with who they really are.
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The US is dynamic, because people change throughout a relationship. Yesterday’s US is NOT TODAY’S US. Understanding the person in front of you is at least as important as accepting the person you used to know. People change all the time and you can either grow into the real person, or you can grow out of them.
There is no one-size-fits-all deal or timeline to match. Every situation is different but these are basic underlying factors i’ve noticed in relationships that last. The creation of the US thoughtform, and constant feedback on its health is a thing i see in healthy relationships, while each person still maintains their own identities.
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That’s great from you.
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Keep in mind this was an example of a love magick ritual i did almost a decade ago.
According to the posts i put up at the time, the spell was a success. The 2 people had been together for over a year and this was a reconnection ritual that worked overnight. Success, right? Wrong. They broke up 6 months after.
There was another ritual i did a writeup on here for that took place over 11 months. I can’t find it right now, but i explained everything in detail over a 10 month period. By month 12 the two were married, and in month 17 they announced a pregnancy. In month 28 they had a baby boy. Last i checked they’re still together and their boy is in public school now, getting ready to go into junior high. Those 2 do everything together, they are inseparable. That relationship was very much a slow build, and the connection was always calm and purposeful, but the love those two have for each other is very real and they are hilarious together.
I remember one major argument they had at the 2 1/2 year point. One of the guy’s friends started talking about trying to teach the guy pickup and the woman was like what the fuck? They were going at it for like an hour online. At that point i jumped in and i told her, no, he never used pickup on her, as a matter of fact i showed her messages where i WARNED him NOT to try using pickup on her. When she saw those messages she immediately calmed down. Guy’s friend was on the outs after that, which made him salty toward me, but whatever. I had to step in and let her know that relationship was based entirely on a true connection, with ZERO manipulation on anyone’s part. Even on the magick side i never used any love spells to get her attention. I focused only on the guy making himself open to anyone who truly cared about him, and that’s when she showed up out of nowhere. It was very hands-off magick where i LET things happen instead of trying to force them to happen. I think that’s what made the difference in that case - it was more of an acceptance of the relationship happening at its own speed than some kind of forcing it to be.
It’s easy to misread love magick. So many factors involved. Every situation is different
To me it’s not so much about the timing it’s more about when does the motivation to cooperate for the sake of the union kick in.
I mean, i guess you can force someone to submit to you, but how long does that last? When someone wants to be with you of their own accord, respects your emotional needs, and are willing to cooperate with you, to my way of thinking that’s a better barometer of success. It’s hard to measure when that kicks in. For some people it happens almost immediately, some take more time. Relationship rhythms are different, they have to match and you can’t really predict that
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