Probably a honey jar. I read … a lot… about them on a hoodoo forum. I have tried it on someone that was a thorn in my side and it has had positive, slow and steady results ( as described would be). It also issues sympathetic magic or personal concerns as I see writing in regards to most hoodoo spells. Basically you get a jar/ fill it partially with honey, maple syrup or another sweet substance, place inside it your petition and personal concerns from the target. You take a spoon full of the contents, consume it and seal the jar while say something to the affect of “as this honeys sweet to me, so will xxx be sweet to me. Your supposed to “work” the jar on Monday’s, wed, and Fridays, which basically means you you gently shake the jar and re assert your will. I’ve read you can open it and add to it, but I haven’t. I burn a four hour candle on top of mine after carving my targets name and wish into it.
Honestly as first I had doubts but my friendship with this person has grown immensely and almost entirely from their change in attitude to me