Hard enough to crack diamonds probably.
…I’m not sorry.
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Sorry for what?
Im sorry in advance but im going to be a bit of an asshole for a second. You are addicted to porn? Do you want to stop really? I mean fuck of all the addictions out there this is easy shit. Do you feel like your going to die without it? Do you feel like your body is turning inside out. Is it impossible to be comfortable without constantly shaving your carrot? Do you sweat to the point of being way too fucking cold, but when you cover yourself up your way too hot.
Do you feel constant pain without your fix? Do you experience vomiting and diarrhea when you abstain. And when/if you do abstain, do you have all of these symptoms for weeks on end? Are you in constant pain? Do your emotions get to the point of feeling “out of your control” .
I realize you may feel some of these sensations, mildly, but take it from someone whos spent most of their life on drugs, your situation could be worse, your situation could be better. You have to really want it to be better to make it better.
You should have no problem controlling yourself if thats really what you want. Your on easy street man. This is pud spanking, not shoving a needle in your arm.
Im so sorry to be a complete douche about this and i dont mean this as a personal attack. I just want you to see how easy you really have it, and you have the power to take control if self control is truly your desire you have to work for it.
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Train yourself to last longer using the porn. Pick longer videos and eventually only do it once a day. Then every other day. Then once a week. Look into solo sex magick as well.
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Again sorry if my cranky morning reply was taken the wrong way. Ive battled addiction since i was a kid. My appoligies for acting apathetic, because really i feel great empathy towards people struggling with any kind of repetitive habit that becomes self defeating.
There is no easy answer to make such drastic changes and no change like that happens overnight. You really need to dedicate yourself. Make the logical voice in your head louder than the emotional voice that says “I need this”. Question this thought. Why do you feel you need this, your first answer will probably be something like “because it makes me feel better.”
Then question that thought, why does it make me feel better? What am i trying to escape? And keep questioning yourself until you get to the core root of why. This well help ypu to address and work through that which is holding you back.
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Wouldn’t 6 days be plenty of time for a super powered blast of magick goo anyways?
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I personally hate limitations and I am sure that the need of retention is different from magician to magician…
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After careful consideration, and after consulting my Vedic Astrology Charts (which indicate that I was born a lucky hedonist), and after considering my porn use (daily, but not excessive), I’ve come to realize that I am still WAY to young to limit myself sexually (either porn or with partners)…and especially considering that with warm weather now, I will be EXTRA horny, and with that inevitably comes my “SWS” (“Summer Whoring Season”), where I will be essentially “on the prowl” and will no doubt have many partners. Maybe sometime later, I will focus on Retention, but as for now, sex is simply TOO enjoyable. I will try to focus some magick on potential partners (attracting them, bending their will to mine, etc.). Thanks everyone for your comments. I really appreciate them, and will keep this thread and refer to it when (if) my sluttiness and porn usage becomes problematic. Thanks, but Hedonism is just too much fun.
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Remember, semen retention does NOT mean no sex, it only means no ejaculation. Learn how to cycle your energy so that you can have a full body orgasm without spilling your seed. Then you can have all the fun, without the loss of power.
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Stop watching porn it caters to your lower self what you should do is get into Tantra that will help you retain your life force aka semen . There’s a lot of information on Tantra that you can research. Best of luck
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Porn is not your friend.
Think of it as a friend that is not a friend. It is something that wants to get something from you and give you nothing in return. The orgasm? You can get that without porn.
What is porn? It is a fake representation of what you want.
It is 2 dimensional, flat. On screen or a piece of paper.
Wouldn’t you rather experience something more towards 5 dimensional?
Semen retention is the friend that gives. There are so many benefits in retaining. Self confidence being perhaps the easiest to experience And when you know that you have self control that is also an extremely powerful thing to feel.
People around you will notice this and will see you as a stronger, more dependable, interesting and more fulfilled individual. You will be able to notice and understand your own emotions much easier and therefore become a more emotionally intelligent, stable person simply because you have this self control and self confidence to go forward.
What woman doesn’t want a strong, dependable man next to her?
What man doesn’t respect another man who is strong and dependable?
Semen retention won’t make you smell bad either lol.
It quite literally makes you a more wholesome person as you would not be throwing away the most important ingredients that you have inside. That life force is your power for all things and to throw it away is to disrespect yourself and that is where guilt and regret comes in. Then the lack of energy, emotional and physical. If you don’t throw it away then you don’t experience that guilt or regret. You don’t lose anything and you stand to gain so much more health, vitality and stamina.
That jizz, chi, power, life force or whatever you want to call it is honestly better off left inside you. It feeds your own body with the most essential nutrients that will always be on hand to rush to whatever part of your body that needs them.
To deplete those nutrients is to deprive yourself of what was already yours and your body will have to wait until it rebuilds.
Me? 11 months and counting. I used to keep a daily tally to kind of congratulate myself but found that unnecessary along the way.
You can bring yourself to the point of no return … but then simply return. It is truly so much more satisfying to keep you inside of you. You can feel a kind of expansion of yourself because of this.
Isn’t that what we want? To feel ourselves expanding out to attract what we want?
The effect is longer lasting and brings self appreciation.
You will have bags of energy in reserve for when you need it, rather than saying ‘god, I’m wanked out’. Meanwhile, there’s another guy who knows better and says ‘yeah I’m ready for that’ and he springs into action instead.
Energy is pretty special stuff right? 
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Why not get an incubus instead? Much better in every way.
- you get to have sex “experience”
- since the incubus will take some of your sexual energy that would otherwise just have been wasted
and shot out into the universe - you get better sex than porn
- the incubus will actually give you some energy back
- the incubus will help you grow and give you knowledge.
Maybe try an some binaural incubus enn vids on YT?
https://www.youtube.com/results?search_query=binaural+incubus+enn
(probably doesn’t matter whether you search for incubus or succubus since they will most likely adapt to your needs. It is after all in their interest to get you off 
)
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it just means you have weak will if you can’t do it. not just addiction to porn. any kind of addiction. you don’t love yourself enough to take control. addiction means you lost control.
don’t use excuse of horny. you can always redirect the energy.
Semen retention is bullshit (partly). You produce less fluid semen when you arent fapping and edging thats correct and thats where the benefits come from. Your body doesnt use the nutrients for it. If you are edging you produce it though and thats when you get the majority of wet dreams.
Edging btw is far worse than just cumming. Your dopamine skyrockets without dropping fast. Edging definitely is a relapse, a hard one.
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Ever consider you might be depressed and need the endorphins and that’s why you masterbate to porn so much?
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Good point.
You could watch a subliminal video. Something like this. ★SEMEN RETENTION★ ENERGY TRANSMUTATION FORMULA - NO FAP - REGAIN YOUR LIFE FORCE! - YouTube
Another thing you could do is look at artistic nudes and draw their poses. Not erotic art, just nudes in poses. You can find things like this on deviantart which is focused on artistic expression. Try drawing nudes in poses such as standing up, sitting down, hugging, snuggling, kissing, laughing, crying, angry, furious, surprised, unarmed, armed, all kinds of expressions. This could take away any of the sexuality in it and turns the person into wallpaper instead of a sexual fantasy. Even if you’re only doing stick figures to start it could help you see people as models, not penises or vaginas.
Well semen retention just means not ejaculating right? So if you watch porn, but don’t masturbate OR masturbate to the point of ejaculation then your still technically practicing semen retention?
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