Hey InnerGoddess, I noticed from your profile that you are pretty new to magick. Learning and building a great foundation is key. Then, once you have some knowledge then you can feel a bit more confident in your workings.
So how long do you usually wait for results to manifest? I always give it 3 days, 3 weeks or 3 months (only for more complex workings). If, after 6 weeks, I don’t at least see “movement” I will do some reinforcing work.
Go a head and vent. Among other things, that’s what the internet is for. Lol.
Well I would say just be patient with yourself. And remember not to hold on too tightly to the results; meaning have a general idea about what you want but don’t get too specific, leave room for this to manifest in the best way possible.
Also be sure to NOT lust for results. Do your spellwork, feel confident that it is already been manifested and just needs to show up. Then fugeddaboudit.