There is a coworker that randomly turned on me and started treating me differently from everyone else these past few months.
Recently he sent a petty email including my boss in it about me eating at my desk (we sit in the same area very close). Theres no rules against it but it seems like he is being favored based off my bosses response. Im in recovery for an eating disorder so my eating schedule has a window period which has been helping me tremendously. What he wants me to do will erase all my progress and trigger me, well, it already has cause here i am at my desk not being able to finish the rest of the food i had planned to eat in my scheduled timeframe. In the past he has triggered me several times and caused me a lot of anxiety but i wont get into that.
This guy is a favorite in the office because he’s usually very unserious and goofy. He is also very loud and takes all his calls on speaker which is very distracting at times and i have asked upper management if my co worker and i can move because we are in cubicles and we are HR/payroll so we should be in an office anyways but thats a whole story in itself. I’ve tried to just put up with his antics and ignore him.
He makes my job harder sometimes and I don’t like how passive aggressive he can be with me especially when it comes to something i need him to do, for example going to my co worker to answer my request when I ask him something.
Im really pissed because i didn’t want to waste my energy or time on him or get rid of a person that everyone else seems to like having around in the office except for me. I have worked with Sabnock before and was thinking maybe he could help with getting him fired? I know getting someone fired is a little extreme but we live in a city where it’ll be really easy for him to get another job in his field.
I cant take this anymore, i looked into getting another job myself but i love the people i work with (except him) and i dont want to start over somewhere else plus i would have to take a salary cut and im already barely making it by with the salary i have. What demons and/or rituals would you guys recommend?
