I’m new here as well, so I’ll introduce myself soon. Just for a record, I live in Holland and English isn’t my native, so to let you know that. Well, hi everyone!
Back to the topic, I’m in pretty similar situation. The difference is, I never saw my target in person, he’s married to a woman and I know 99% he’s bisexual if not gay in a closet. Just for a record, I’ve been married but I consider myself gay.
First of all I know you can influence him by your will but it has to be hell of powerful will. You know the phrase about strong desire… So, I don’t want this guy to divorce or to hate his wife, I want him for sex and some other benefits. He’s young politician and all I want is a friend with a benefits.
I’ve called Sitri and Lord Lucifer. I’m also veeeery new in scrying, so I still only practice scrying mirror. I’ve tried evoking Sitri first and I saw nothing, heard nothing. After that, I’ve made Lucifer’s sigil with a few drops of my blood on it. Very first day gazing, I’ve opened it. Lines have disappeared but the other day gazing, sigil started shining, I saw a beautiful light all within and around it. And I felt such a deep and powerful love. Now I call him father. During the same day I’ve asked him to give me just one sign he’s here. After a few hours I went to the kitchen and I turned on the light. After a second, the light went off and again on and off and on. So I knew it’s him.
I also draw Sitri’s sigil and offered him a few drops of blood. After gazing it was kinda half of success. I just wasn’t sure but I told him: Ok, if this it you Sitri, make that man write me on fb. (We were not friends on fb and I’m not a member of his party.) And I said, just let him like something on my site, anything because if you want to help me you can do that. And I almost forgot about that. I think it was next morning, I was looking what’s new on my fb and there was a new notice. I must say I REALLY wasn’t that sure something like that would happened. It was HIS invitation to become fb friends and me to like his page, too. He liked 2 of my posts. And yes of course I’ve accepted it The same evening I saw him talking something on TV and he was talking from aside, he wasn’t looking at the camera, not for a second. I just called Sitri in my minds and the name of this guy and then I’ve concentrated deeply from my 3rd eye to his 3rd eye and I was repeating in my minds, demanding him to look at me. For 2-3 times but it was very intensive, using all my force. He moved his body and his head to this camera in the corner and was looking a bit confused, distracted at this camera (my eyes) for twice. And I knew. I just knew - that’s it. Yesterday evening I’ve made our special sigil and it opens a bit slowly but hey he’s married and not even in my city. But veeery soon I will be there and work on it more because I have a goal. So, yes man, if you are serious, I mean if your desire is THAT strong, you can do that. But imo it’s shouldn’t be only to satisfy your ego saying something like now I’ll use him and leave him. Success! Btw am very happy finding this forum. And even more happy since when I said to me: g’d bye you selfish “almighty” creature somewhere above the clouds.