Cursing and hexing is not at all why I became interested witchcraft and magic, but a situation has presented itself where I feel like it’s the appropriate solution.
My partner had a falling out with one of her friends a few months back when we moved cities. This person thinks that she spread rumours and sensitive information about her around and they had a big fight before we left. We just became aware that this person not only has not let it go yet, but has been hacking emails, cyber stalking, doing weird borderline obsessive things, blaming my partner for everything still etc. This time frame also corresponds with a pretty bad bout of depression for my partner. I don’t know if she actually ‘cursed’ in a magick sense but she’s definitely been obsessively directing hatred in this direction.
Is there any simple spell a beginner such as I can do with just a black candle and a strong will that will get this person to energetically f*ck off?
Any good kindle books on the topic I should look to?
Sorry to hear about your current situation. Sounds like a nasty vitriolic person.
To answer your question :
You could use the black candle to create a protective aura around you and your partner. Pretty simple, and definitely beginner friendly. Just light, and stare into flame, envisaging yourselves wrapped in a protective mist that both deflects and hides you from your aggressor. That’s what I’d do.
Try Damon Brand’s Magickal Protection. The Gallery of Magick developed an Angelic form of protective banishing called the Sword Banishing Ritual. Awfully effective from my own experience and can deflect most nasty stuff aimed at you.
Just as an addendum, you could employ the black candle again to bind your aggressor. See them bound up like a mummy, unable to do anything aimed at you and your partner. Bindings and silencing are a total power move. They effectively render the person unable to exact any form of attack.
Thank you for the tips. She actually woke up from a negative dream about this person, to a text message from a mutual friend tipping her off that this person was accessing her accounts and talking about it to everyone. she feels really creeped out and angry.
Definitely doing that candle thing tonight and I’m going to check out that book.
A mirror (you can get a mirror candle stand at hobby lobby)
Or Bowl of water
Or salt.
What to do:
Since you are reversing and sending back the crap directed at you, you’re going to cut off the top of the candle so it’s flat.
Flip the candle over, pare away wax from what was previously the bottom to expose the wick.
The candle is supposed to draw in and absorb the negativity. You may want to run your finger(s) from the ends towards the center of the candle while visualizing it drawing in the negativity. I recommend a black candle, but white (good for anything) or red (offensive/combat color) will be fine.
You’re going to place the candle on the mirror, OR in the bowl of water (in a candle holder of course, the water acts as a reflective surface [mirroring]), OR in the salt.
Light your candle and stare into it as you visualize it drawing in all the negative energy, which will be reflected and sent back where it came.
You may wish to verbalize this someway , however you see fit.
Do this until you feel it’s good/complete (you may feel a lift like things are lighter).
Let the candle burn down and forget about it.
If you do use a mirror, you’ll want to only use that mirror for the same or similar in future unless you cleanse it from the negativity you just reflected.
In addition, you may want to do a really good banishing aftrrward.
Hi, so I have been on tiktok and I have seen a lot of people talking about doing back to sender spells. So I went on googling how to do back to sender spells. Ive found a couple of videos with people demonstrating how they personally do it, but they all seem different. So, I was wondering if anyone here could share how they do a back to sender spells? So I can learn? Also! If you have any good books on reversal magick that isnt Jason Miller, that would be great. I already have his book on reversal magic but I don’t really like it because it is heavily focused on Heckate, and I dont work with her. Almost every ritual in that book surrounds Heckate. So dont recommend that book, please.
@Eat3music Please use the search before starting new topics, we have too mant return to send spell topics already. I have merged your post into this one - scroll up for lots of ideas.
Yes, that’s right. They are all different because these are not a specific spell, but the intention for a spell, which is to return energy back to whoever sent it.
How you do that is really up to you, and probably varies depending on what is happening.
So you for example, would not call Hekate for it, because you’re not interested in working with her, and that’s fine. But other people that have a relationship her might use that as their go-to method and that’s fine too.
@Lordcaesars I’m not sure of your intention with this comment but please do not offer magical services. We have a rule against new members offering to do magic for others until they have been relatively active for a minimum of 90 days. This is to help prevent our members from being taken advantage of.
Make a crimson red chi ball while visualizing it returning to the sender.
Look into your eyes in a mirror while commanding it to return to sender.
Stare at an evil eye symbol or talisman, you can even just draw it, and imagine red energy leaving you and going into the symbol, and then returning to the sender.
Rub an egg all over your body while repeating a cleansing affirmation, and then place it in a jar or cup of water underneath your bed as you sleep. When you wake up, just dump out the water and egg outside in the trash.
-If you want to send the curse back to whoever sent it to you, you take the cup after you wake up and you carefully turn it over onto a plate.
Place it behind your front door to your home or bedroom, and you light a tealight candle or votive candle over the cup.
You can wait until the next night to do this, too, which is great because the person that sent it most likely will be asleep and will be the most vulnerable.
Then, after the candle burnt down, you obviously throw it away, outside. If I have to go somewhere that day, I will throw it away somewhere far from my home.
-You can do all of this too if you don’t have an egg. Just use a cup or even a jar of water.