Really? Because there is a handful of entities with whom I have spoken, rather lengthy conversations actually, and one in particular that I speak to every day, even if there is nothing magickal to talk about that day. The people who cannot seem to get spirits to chat with them, outside of pathworking and occult related topics, and don’t have conversations that last more than just a minute or two, are those who have not found the right spirit to connect to and open up to.
Their purpose is to educate us so we can help ourselves, and they will help us as well to show us that they are friendly and have our best interests in mind, but generally speaking these spirits do not desire to or have “time” to mess around having pointless conversations with everyone they come into contact with. They are like people in that aspect, they have their own to-do lists to attend to and they have their own personalities which may or not clash with our own.
That’s why we are free to choose which entities to work with, because just like people, some we may get along with, some not so much, and some, if you go searching in the right direction (if the spirit does not make themselves known to you first) you could end up finding that you have a spirit that can be a very close companion. But you also have to keep in mind, they have their own preferences and agendas so just because you are attracted to a particular spirit does not mean they will be attracted to you in return, again, just like humans.
That’s also why Lilith is available to help pair you up with an entity that is most compatible to you if you are seeking a long term relationship with one of them, that you can actually talk to every day and chit chat with, just because. And even then, when find a spirit you are compatible with you cannot force them into these things, they have to also desire to be with you or connect with you on a personal friendship or relationship type basis. That’s why not many people speak of having such close interactions with spirits because, they have a mind of their own as well and just like us, everything has to be just right for both parties involved.
From what I have noticed, from my own experiences and others as well, usually to have that type of conversation where you can open to a spirit and chit chat just because, you need to be engaged in a relationship of some sort with that spirit because most of them do not open up to humans that closely unless you are their “mate” for lack of a better word.