I felt the need to create a topic about this. Because sometimes, the entities that we call upon for help don’t fulfill our wishes for our own good.
I will start with one experience that happened recently:
I have a loved one that can’t keep their mouth shut. I realized later on that I can’t trust them at all without everyone finding out.
I told them something that was important to me and private and asked them to shut up and not tell anybody. It obviously didn’t work lol.
I decided to do a binding spell on them just in case. I really didn’t want anyone to find out about this because people around here are jealous and competitive and would do anything to drag you down if they could. Trust me, I’m not exagerrating.
So I did the ritual and it didn’t work because when I went to visit them I found out that they immediately shared the information with, like, 5 people. What angered me the most was the fact that they called me just to find out about my results so they could share it with the whole town after I asked them not to. Not cool. We had some fights because of this.
After a month, there was a post in another magick group called "Binding a loved one. Is it a good idea or not?". I just sat down and contemplated the whole situation and realised that if I couldn’t accept my loved ones for who they are, that means that I am too controlling.
Everyone has flaws, nobody is perfect. And this person is old, they can’t do anything about it, their mind doesn’t work that well anymore.
They didn’t share the results because they wanted to hurt me, they were proud of me.
I realised this after they called me and started crying because they were so proud. And I started to feel guilty for the binding spell that I did on them and realised that the entity that I called upon refused to help me for my own good.
Next time, when a spell doesn’t work, ask yourself if there is a lesson behind this. Perhaps the spell didn’t work for your own good.
Feel free to share your experiences! I would love to read them.