A spirit came in my life recently, she is sexual but i have learned she is not a succubus from another empath. The empath also said that the spirit chose me because i am emphatic and she needed to hide or something but is now emotionally attached to me. Anyway it sucks i can not communicate with it well, and i tend to piss her off sometimes and i will feel like a beam burning me all over my body. What can i do to strenghten the bond with my spirit? And what kind of spirit could she be?