This. My problem is totally diving in without having given the relationship time to mature and find out if I actually like the person
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Yeah, not imo worth it. Start by finding out and asking yourself if it’s what you truly want. There’s some things I want that require me to work on myself first bc I will get them and simply fuck it up otherwise…
Other things I can continue learning skills and am prepared to keep at after I get it
But I think it was great for me to learn how to do things the way I did still… just no longer need to repeat that.
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