So I’ve [M27] been dating Jess [F27] for about 2 months now. We have a lot in common and have gotten along really well so far. Problem is that we have tried to have sex twice in the past week and I’ve been unable to get an erection either time. It’s been very upsetting for me. After the first time she didn’t act any differently and we were texting at the same rate we were before but after the second time things have gone a bit cold. I wanted to to clear the air a bit and was hoping for some advice on what to say.
tl;dr - I haven’t been able to get an erection the first couple times I’ve tried to have sex with the girl I’ve been dating and now I don’t know how to proceed.