reason for all the stuff he said in the videos is because of cell phones and social media. they think sites like FB substitute real human interaction. Gone are the days where you tell your story in front of the person which creates intimacy. Now everyone post snippets of their life on facebook. most relate through text rather than social interaction face to face or touching each other looking in one’s eyes. They distance through a screen. They never played together like babies in a playground or hide and seek, tags. etc… The young are not use to embracing emotions. Most don’t know how to connect to nature either. They have social phobia. they can’t have a normal discussion about anything. They fear talking things out. Most don’t actually date, they be text dating or interaction through screen instead of in person.
YOu can learn skills of intimacy if one wants to learn it. however, most younger folks don’t want to learn. I have a manager who don’t talk to the tenants if there is a problem. he goes texting tenants instead of talking in person to figure out the issues. Young people these day even fear face to face interaction even when it’s part of one’s job. it’s mandatory to interact with people in a manager position. People lack being in their body. They do all kinds of behavior to stay out of their body.
The sad part is that people think texting is equally the same as dating or socializing. They don’t realize the real person is known through real in person interaction. So many misunderstanding is through text/emails yet they think it’s same as getting to know someone in person. If the person don’t use in person interaction as means to know someone, they will not learn the skills for intimacy or truly know the person. They will not develop real people skills. People spend more time on phones/social media than actual in person interaction with each other. that’s not a real relationship.