yea @Lop_Pollo , i think over the years a couple of things i had done and keep doing, have made it so that i am more open to the spirit world. the first has been doing sitting meditation, zazen for years. this was for like 10 years now, and i also was doing things to help me to get more in touch with my emotions. it was really uncomfortable for a couple of years, but i felt like i was trying to heal from some trauma.
i think a combination of things made a lot of changes in my inner space. i have a feeling that a spirit wants to have a space to be able to connect with, inside. i dunno if that makes sense but if i was still dealing with lots of the stuff i used to go through, i dont think that i would have been able to sense a spirit either.
i guess it’s important to make them feel welcome, and wait for them.