@Empress-Luna Hello and welcome. As to your question about can demons make your desires and wishes reality, yes, they can. It’s a matter of finding the right demons with the right powers, evoking them properly, giving the demon your statement of intent as a single, concise and clear desired result ( make sure to make your petition in the present-tense or as if it has already happened and you have what you want. I prefer the latter. The demon will know what you mean ). You can then be more informal, sum up the situation and what you want. Make sure the demon has all of the information it needs ( it may ask for more information, give it the information so it’s absolutely clear on what you want ). At some point during your communication with the demon, gaze at it’s sigil/seal, speak it’s name, and visualize what you offer as a gift/offering ( and it is a gift, not a pact or payment, it’s a nice way of saying thank you for a job well done ), and give the license to depart. When your desired results have been given to you and made reality to your satisfaction, evoke the demon again. When it shows up, look again at it’s sigil/seal, speak it’s name and tell it something like “Here is your reward as I promised” or something like that. While gazing at it’s sigil, consume the offering ( no blood or bodily fluids, that is reckless, dangerous, and in my opinion, stupid ) while totally concentrating on offering every bit of the sensory experience to the demon, then give the license to depart.
As far as wanting to fuck some made-up, urban legend, or any non-human entity, I have to ask why? I would imagine a ritual aimed at such a thing won’t work because that’s pretty impossible. Why not ask Sitri, Beleth, or a similar demon to attract a real man to have a sexual relationship with, which may include love if you so wish and will it and call the right demon. Especially when you’re new to the occult and demonic work, ask for the just out of reach, ask for the improbable, not the impossible. Hope this helps. Oh, by the way, if that’s your real picture I would remove it and use another image as your picture. Occultists, especially left hand path, dark arts occultists ( like most of us here ) can use it as a link to fuck you up. As far as feeling abused by a spirit(s), don’t take abuse from anyone, human or spirit. You can evoke the demon Valefar to protect you during the night, and the demon Murmus to rid your house and you of any haunting, unwanted entities. Hope this helps, Regards ~ Cthulhu669