Hello… So I lost my job a few months ago and have been very anxious and increasingly had suicidal thoughts ever since. I haven’t had any big notable interactions with any demon only Lilith giving me a dream as requested. (Although it meant a lot to me, not really a big breakthrough to others.) I feel she is watching me in a motherly way and has seen the way I have been. Last night, my manager whom I worked for got in contact with me. Although no sign of getting my job back, could this be something Lilith has done to help me because she saw the state I was in? Or am I completely reaching… I haven’t done an evocation or anything in the sort of asking for anything because I don’t feel the need to. I feel this is sorta just all a coincidence but just wanted to know if it’s possible for them to do things without being asked.
Magick works through coincidence 
And yes, spirits can act of their own will. If Lilith has taken a motherly interest in you, it is very possible she picked up on your emotions and helped you out.
Wow that’s exciting. I only thought they did things upon request it’s exciting to hear they can influence your life without asking, but also scary at the same time… This changes a lot for me because I feel multiple things have happened in my life that could be her work.
I know that if not Lilith, spirits have done this for me even before I got into magick if I think back on it. However even now too.
Having called upon Lilith, she would certainly be there for you, especially if you’re feeling a motherly energy from her. Yes they have their own will just the same and can help if they so deem fit. 
Lilith has definitely shown me her motherly aspect. Its the one I’m most familiar with. 
When I worked with Lucifer and Astarte, opportunities popped up frequently so yes it can happen
I feel you. Looking backwards, I can see influence from several of those I work with now that wasn’t obvious at the time or I wasn’t actively practicing, but they had an interest for whatever reason and helped guide me to get where I am.
I still see it happening, too, but they’re more open about it.
So true