I second adding something that brings him worse situations the more he screws up, that’s what I meant by “repurcussions if he goes against it”
In my own situation he luckily behaves and has not had to see those situations 
but they’re there if needed.
I also did some working with Dantalion on this to change mindsets surrounding honesty, loyalty, and faithfulness. Since he can manipulate the thoughts of others.
Can I add more phrases to the binding ? Make it up to 9 ?
I don’t see why not. I think the main thing would be to keep the intention very clear. If restating the purpose helps that, great, but if it dilutes it you could be diluting the effect.
Update: She came back from being away for a month and they have seen each other every weekend for the last 4 weekends in a row, the entire weekend while he takes his dog with him.
He has been very happy when he comes around for a dose of narcissistic supply.
I’m taking that as a positive sign. A card reading on “why is he still here?” came up “Resources”. Pretty self explanatory.
On a side note, I have realized the Quariea deck card do have a whiff of Archon about them. But they don’t lie, you have to be careful to ask enough questions. They tried to tell me there was power in keeping him, but then he is the Goblin King. I’m getting many small signs that I need to be wary and he has to go. He may die if I’m too harsh. I dogsat for him last month and he’s badly trained it so the dog bit me: he reacts without thinking to bites the hand that feeds him if you move too fast. This, I knew, but the reminder was on point.
I will perform the “Force Exile” ritual from Angels of Wrath. Looking to nudge him and have her take him in permanently.
This will need to be combined with other disruptors to dislodge his attachment to me and my resources, and a working on her to want him living with her - probably Dantalion for that one.
I have had the penny drop that in ALL his stories of getting with women, he likes it when they are rude, assumptive and boss him about, throw themselves on him and demand his attention. He calls this “confidence”. Basically he’s sexually submissive and this turns him on.
My respect for him dropped like a stone. Sovereign human beings do not give their power away.
Or, there’s way too much Belial in me to deal with that, and that was before I invoked Belial permanently. Either way this is viscerally repulsive to me and I don’t even want to have to look at him much less hear about how he loves using “strong” women as a kept man - a “house slave”. He’s a gold-digger, a seriously bratty and unskilled “slave” in any case and no real domme would put up with him.
There’s no hope for him, he’s been like this since he was a spotty “jock” in high school, a somatic narc who think having abs is all it takes.
I’ve already got a pussy, I never needed another one.
[/disgusted rant over]
Good long labor Weekend weekend away but he’s leaving behind the dog. That’s not good. If the cow hasn’t got room in her life for his dog she’s useless to me and will have to go.
I have said I’ll no longer dog-sit, not least because he said he’s be back today and then wasn’t, and I don’t like being dicked around and taken advantage of, but that poor dog just howls and barks for hours after I have fed him but I can’t just live in the apartment. People who abandon dogs make me wish I believed in hell.
And so it is.
Eternal gratitude to T’y’grah and Pariel.
This working is descending into darkness, I know. Maybe it should be in black magick, because I’m losing my patience.
I didn’t feel it much with Sitri. He wasn’t so into the idea, didn’t exactly say no and doesn’t disapprove but I felt like he had other things going on and it wasn’t in hid offices after all, or not this time.
Taking an idea from @Ragepanda I called Chahoel (KAH-HAW-EL)L) from the 72 angels using his seal.
He can rid your house of pests.
With this a new energy came in, he said he got it and also brought me some peace so I could get back to sleep as this was 4am.
I had two dreams back to back about doing something that wakes up a Godzilla-like monster. It breaks things and sets buildings on fire, the employees run and the boardroom doesn’t realize there’s an issue until I tell them. There’s a big fuss but I’m not alone and we all defeat it. I know I’m dreaming and try to control movement better but I’m not lucid enough to just go “this is stupid” and end it. In the end the monster calms down and it explains it just wants to govern half of Australia and will stop destroying it if we hand the land over to him. The current ruler of AU has the same face but I don’t notice that until I wake up.
Probably more current-affairs related than getting rid of my unwanted guest related, but it’s all mixed in together. He’s glommed on to my flat, half of my house, as his home and wants to just take it or there’ll be trouble. Bit too ephemeral to death curse just yet but I’m getting there.
This ritual and book have never failed me. I note sometimes it works quote fast but other times takes a few months. Especially for Force Exile but then BOOM. I had a real nasty, lunatic work colleague that bullied and caused problems for everyone there. Had to do this twice a few years apart to get rid of her permanently. Second time, at first the situation got really bad after doing it. Things just exploded and I think it brought the situation to a head and brought out the worst in her. She literally went psycho, lashing out in rages and she nearly became physically violent towards me.
But I think it was all part of things getting worse before they get better. I persisted with other rituals and then after a few weeks things suddenly resolved themselves in the best possible way for me and others. She was forced out basically. And she was hit with a load of problems, including bad health. I literally did most of the rituals in Angels of Wrath on her, lol. Twice. I found those angels to be more powerful than any I’d worked with previously. And am very grateful for their help.
Good luck with your situation!
Still so far so good. he’s off for the 6th consecutive weekend with her. No contact all week [sigh of relief]. I feel Tayagrah and Pariel around from time to time if I reach out with my mind. Less so Chahoel, and I have a hard time remembering his name, which is I usually take as a sign they’re not so interested.
I ran another working from Angels of Wrath this morning for good measure “Silence and Enemy”. he talks about people behind their backs a lot and I’d like him to let sleeping dogs lie.
Thanks you Haderiel, Hasiel, and Demimiel. - Winterfield, Gordon. Angels of Wrath
I didn’t put as much oomph into this so we’ll see.
The last I did while doing a treadmill workout, which kind of gets you in trance anyway, keeping the animal occupied, and it was an hour-long workout of just working that sigil and calling the names, focusing on the intention and outcome.
But just got a funny nudge, and not sure what it was but it’s connected into this guy, I pulled a card, and got seclusion.
So for some reason they’re telling me to let it rest for now. I might then retreat behind a firewall just in case.
Yeahhh theres kink then theres letting your power get taken. Rude anyone is not “confidence”.
”Ive already got a pussy, i never needed another one” LOL. Yeah, get rid. Not worth.
M’kay that worked so well, I haven’t seen him in a month except 2 x in passing, and now he tells me he’s been texting all week and I didn’t get any of his texts.
That’s inconvenient but I get it. He ain’t moving out though so no cigar.
Update: MASSIVE success. 
Just got out of a 4hr confessional, these guys have their fights because they both have strong personalities and there’s comms issues, fears about being vulnerable or getting rejected for showing too much emotion, but from what 'm hearing, they are well on their way to falling in love and making it work long term.
The situation has turned around and the issues I see now are, he’s got an insecurity or two, she’s a spoiled princess too used to having everybody kowtow and is a bit of a prick. The only way they make up is to have sex.
I have suggested a couples counselor to give them a safe space to talk it out and learn comms techniques to stabilize the relationship and stop having so much volatility. It’s their anniversary on Halloween, a great time to do a working to help cement this into a stable LTR, which is what they both want.
I’ll have to hit the books and see what comes to me.
Hail Pariel, Hail Teyagrah. Hail Asmoday, Hail Hail Hail.
Pulled a card: Union.
Short and sweet:
Ah, got it almost immediately - I feel like we have an eager volunteer.
Damon Brand’s 72 Angels of Magick, Yeliel can “Bring Calm to Arguing Lovers” and “Ensure Fidelity”. Twofer!
Update. So… two weekends ago they had a big fight. I heard about it the Thursday after, and found out they’ve been in this volatile fight0make up sex pattern whole time. That Tuesday seh’d broken up with him over text.
So I made soothing noises and honestly everything pointed to her being hurt, him being insecure and she wanted him to fight for her. I encouraged him to do this, gave him the whole woman’s perspective thing and he decided (realized) he’s in love with her, and she with him, because neither of them would care if they weren’t.
That night (Thurs) I got into ritual with Beleth, Eligos, Dantalion, Foras in my snazzy new Universal Circle - first time using it - met the entity of the circle (sooo… side note, nope making you own doesn’t bring it, it’s very distinct and feels a lot like Archaelus) - and focused everything I could think of into practically posessing her, feeling all the thinks I want her to feel and leaving her with them.
The sigil is still open on my mantel piece.
Things were on hold, she wanted to talk but needed space… Yesterday she invited him over and now he’s there, hopefully for the weekend, starting into an new phase of the relationship where they’re now knowing where they stand and want to “make it work”.
Intellectually I want to run a top-up while they’re together, but I’m not feeling that energetically, I think I’ll follow my gut and let it bake, let this thing take a life of it’s own now… The team are on it, let them play ball.
Hail Beleth, Eligos, Dantalion and Foras!
Groooo… 
So he’s doing the full narc thing, she’s signed them up for some kind of Spiritual Couples Communication course, and he’s not into it. It’s belittling of it and thing just agreeing to do it should be all it takes to get all the brownie points.
He might be in for a shock as she’s going to be looking for his attitude and a change in his ability to communicate and I need a working to get him to actually take part and use it to grow. He thinks he’s perfect and pretty much is just getting narc supply from her and her friends group. All this attention is making him worse and he’s getting more and more grandiose with every month.
If he doesn’t play this right she’ll cut her losses and he’ll discard her when she stops giving supply.
The sigils are still open for Dantalion, Beleth, Foras and Eligos, so I’ll get back in circle and ask them for advice tonight, as I’m running out of ideas. If it’s true when he says “this one’s different” there’s a hope he can get over himself enough to get genuine and real.
Update: so I removed the Exile last month as I was feeling the flows as causing too much stress on the relationship, in a kind of, she was feeling like he had nowhere else to go and that’s not attractive.
Now I’ve added instead the “A Ritual to Remove Somebody from Your Life” working from Gordon Winterfield’s Magickal Attack. And I may bring back in the Exile working now it’s had time to relax.
But no real change otherwise. I’m considering adding an exile to her as well, I don’t need to know she exists and if a good banishing on her pushes her our of my sphere, maybe he’ll follow. 
