The purpose of this post is to share my raw unfiltered thoughts about how I currently view myself and how I view magick in hopes that my fellow BALGers can give me constructive criticism, critiques & help me be realistic but still confident and self-assured on my journey as a mage.
I feel powerful, over myself and others, like I can make myself or anyone do or believe anything (with the help of magick) and through years of practice and experience. I’ve been reading a lot on here, other forums, books, I’ve seen what’s possible and it makes me feel powerful. I question myself asking , is this the “right” way to think, despite simultaneously feeling like there is no right or wrong way to think it is only what you believe. But at the same time I feel weak (in a magical sense) which I think comes from self doubt.
My self doubt in my magical ability comes from the fact that I don’t meditate consistently, I struggle to keep my mind focused while performing magick, and I call myself being realistic as far as research I’ve done and magick I’ve performed and got results from and how long I’ve beeen practicing.
been on my journey since January 2018, started doing love spells on the same person February 2020 & did over 6 that year had no idea what I was doing at the time and didn’t realize they were backfiring until it was too late, didn’t do anymore spells until this year, now this year I started off trying to remove & undo them, but no matter what I did it still felt like I felt the effects of the spell backfiring, the first thought as soon as I opened my eyes in the morning was him and all throughout the day I could not focus on anything besides him, and how angry I was about what was happening at the time and angry at myself because I felt like it was all my fault and that I shouldn’t have done love spells in the first place.my anger lead me to stop, trying to undo and remove the love spells, and into doing hexes but anyway.
I have over 60 books but I’ve only finished Witchery by Juliet Diaz & The Alchemist by Paulo Coelho. I’ve done around 15 candles spells (can’t tell if they’ve been successful or not due to my memory, I can’t remember how I felt or what happened yesterday or last week etc so it’s hard for me to notice if there was a change from one week to the next, for example I do a self love candle on Monday by next Monday it’ll be like I think I notice a difference maybe but I can’t remember how I felt last week to compare it to how I feel now, is an example of a problem I’ll have) i’ve also done three hexes, a anti-laziness jar(that didn’t work at all but I think would have worked better if if I shook it every morning ) & different types of protection work.
Which brings me to the title of this post.
How do you know when you’re being realistic with yourself versus being hard on yourself and ruining your magick.?
I know this post is all over the place but any thoughts or commentary on anything I said in the post would be appreciated even if you don’t respond to my question. Y’all my only magickal friends rn lol