This is your 9th new topic on the same subject. This one is so similar to this topic it’s worth keeping them together and I have merged them, so that people can see what has already been suggested. If you could avoid duplicate posting that would be ideal.
Scrolling up, you already have some suggestions, have you tried any of them yet?
There’s also this megathread with attraction spells.
Include what you don’t want in your petition, spell wording etc, whatever method you choose.
It’s the same idea as asking Bune for money “but not by killing my parents for their life insurance - not that kind of money!”.