Attracting women

So I think most girls would view me as a fairly attractive guy. I have an athletic build, am intelligent and funny. I can put on an air of confidence, too, which I know girls like. But I have always had a hell of a time finding girls to date. I tried E.A.'s love spell a while back (before I was able to suspend disbelief about magick). The result? The girl promptly found the love of her life, ha. Glad it helped somebody.

I don’t have a lot of faith in the ability of magick to bring a “specific” person around to like someone. But I think it may work for drawing “someone” in which I may find attractive in all the important ways. Any thoughts?

Not to sound negative but when ever has romantic love served you well? You know this thing is riddled with torments and the price paid far exceeds any benefits you will incur. Just get yourself a video camera and a prostitute, the video camera is so it can be legal, (pornography) and the prostitute so you can save money, time and exuberant amounts of fruitless effort. Oh and then you can put the videos on the internet charge horny men’s credit cards to see it and you have also solved your financial troubles as well, and you didn’t even need magick to do it! Cheers! LOL! This is all a big joke so please don’t take it serious.

[quote=“jboy, post:1, topic:7296”]So I think most girls would view me as a fairly attractive guy. I have an athletic build, am intelligent and funny. I can put on an air of confidence, too, which I know girls like. But I have always had a hell of a time finding girls to date. I tried E.A.'s love spell a while back (before I was able to suspend disbelief about magick). The result? The girl promptly found the love of her life, ha. Glad it helped somebody.

I don’t have a lot of faith in the ability of magick to bring a “specific” person around to like someone. But I think it may work for drawing “someone” in which I may find attractive in all the important ways. Any thoughts?[/quote]

Women seem to appreciate money more than good looks and pleasant personalities combined, so perhaps winning the lottery is the way to go :smiley:

Why not evoke a spirit and have sex with it? Less STDs that way…And no that’s not a joke, try it out;)

It’s not a path to take lightly, in my opinion. Some spirits do enjoy sex, but sometimes it comes with a prize that needs devotion on a higher level. They’re not sexdolls to please you whenever you want and feel like it. And it’s rarely on your own conditions.

So is getting married to another person, but its done everyday. And every path needs to be taking lightly otherwise what’s the fun in it all? Now as far as love spells go keep trying till you find one that works for you.

And it’s just as common with a divorce after a while, too. Maybe for the same reason of taking their vows “lightly” as soon as there is a crisis in the relationship.

I don’t say it’s wrong to have a “lightly” approach in the paths we’re on, but sometimes along the way, it will get serious, whether we like it or not.

First off ,this topic really needs to go under new magician help or love and lust, so Jboy will maybe get a real answer to that Question, i can’t help him as i’ve never done a love spell and i don’t care to. And succupedia i hear what your saying and your right. I am also right in saying that i can summon up a spirit and use it as a “sex doll” if i please and get rid of it just as fast, nothing so far haves stop me for doing that. But i think this post is about love not sex right? So back to it.

Sure, but why starting with the offtopic suggestion you made by posting this:

Why not evoke a spirit and have sex with it? Less STDs that way...And no that's not a joke, try it out;)
I am also right in saying that i can summon up a spirit and use it as a "sex doll" if i please and get rid of it just as fast, nothing so far haves stop me for doing that.

Maybe you can do that, and maybe that spirit will “do as it please” to you, the same way you did, whether you like it or not. But where’s the respect in doing that? If you see these spirits as “obedient slaves”, it could bite you back when you least expect it.

That sounds reasonable to me, fwiw - it seems to be when people are all hung up on pne person they sometimes have problems. But, “bring me the right person” is a lot simpler in every way.

Attraction involves making yourself edible from an energetic and other standpoint, like what you have materially or socially or magickally. This is not a joke by the way its true. When you have something someone else wants you attract them.

Domination is another thing…you can “Induce” desires in others…but in some cases people are also naturally attracted to someone dominating them anyway. Inducing it in someone basically means your are using magickal or psychological means to control them.

Sure, but why starting with the offtopic suggestion you made by posting this:

Why not evoke a spirit and have sex with it? Less STDs that way...And no that's not a joke, try it out;)
I am also right in saying that i can summon up a spirit and use it as a "sex doll" if i please and get rid of it just as fast, nothing so far haves stop me for doing that.

Maybe you can do that, and maybe that spirit will “do as it please” to you, the same way you did, whether you like it or not. But where’s the respect in doing that? If you see these spirits as “obedient slaves”, it could bite you back when you least expect it.[/quote] Just offering an alternative to all the lonely magicians of the world. And i see no need to point out the warning labels that may or may not come with it. That’s up to the individual to find out for themselves: )Caveat venditor

Sure, but why starting with the offtopic suggestion you made by posting this:

Why not evoke a spirit and have sex with it? Less STDs that way...And no that's not a joke, try it out;)
I am also right in saying that i can summon up a spirit and use it as a "sex doll" if i please and get rid of it just as fast, nothing so far haves stop me for doing that.

Maybe you can do that, and maybe that spirit will “do as it please” to you, the same way you did, whether you like it or not. But where’s the respect in doing that? If you see these spirits as “obedient slaves”, it could bite you back when you least expect it.[/quote] Just offering an alternative to all the lonely magicians of the world. And i see no need to point out the warning labels that may or may not come with it. That’s up to the individual to find out for themselves: )Caveat venditor[/quote]

Hmm… It just sounds a bit spirit rapey… Hey if a spirit is all for wanting to engage in sex, cool…no worries, but it seems many magicians are acting in a way that does involve rape…which is not too cool… Spirits may lash back or things may manifest in a person’s life if they ingage in forms of nonconsensual sexual encounters. Just because an entity is not physical, does not mean we should callously disregard their will either… And sexual frustrated magicians would do better to address their own root issues, than simply blowing a load or blowing off steam… One is a quick fix, while consideringt he root issues will help longer term.

I’m interested in love with a real girl.

You’d probably be better off contacting Axl Rose for advice.

Then, luv, resonate as such. Fill yourself with the essence love, sex, or whatever thing you really want… Like the notes on a guitar, pluck the string, and it shall also find resonance outside you. You can also enlist the aid of any number of spirits, demons, angels, etc… Maybe focus on bringing the right circumstance into your life? And then do your part: have confidence, take care of yourself, and know what women like… And then make yourself available to seeing opportunities…

[quote=“Darsinda, post:13, topic:7296”]Hmm… It just sounds a bit spirit rapey… Hey if a spirit is all for wanting to engage in sex, cool…no worries, but it seems many magicians are acting in a way that does involve rape…which is not too cool… Spirits may lash back or things may manifest in a person’s life if they ingage in forms of nonconsensual sexual encounters. Just because an entity is not physical, does not mean we should callously disregard their will either… And sexual frustrated magicians would do better to address their own root issues, than simply blowing a load or blowing off steam… One is a quick fix, while consideringt he root issues will help longer term.[/quote] OH’ maybe i need to use the term egregore then spirit for what i’m trying to say and even if it is “rape” so what? I’ve been raped in the past,and again so what? It is what it is… Now i don’t treat living women that way or dead ones or goddess’s that way. But the ones i make for myself i will use them however i like,and the morality of it is of no concern to me.

[quote=“jboy, post:14, topic:7296”]I’m interested in love with a real girl.[/quote] That’s cool and i hope you find want your looking for.But your question haves too many variables to give the definitive answer to it…so all i can say is have CONFIDENCE that you CAN attracting women and you will start to.

Taking masturbation to a whole new level.

But I was once romantically involved with an egregore I made,and it was a horribly unhealthy experience.It was like having a ‘‘yes woman’’,who wasn’t real,and yet still part of you…think of it as spitting into a cup until it’s full and then drinking your saliva…perfectly OK,but somehow not normal.

Emphasis on romantically involved and not sexually,and especially not raped.Rape is technically non consensual,so if this thing is an extenson of your will,and you want it,it wants it,and then you just…do.

Eventually,though,the dysfunctionality of that was way too obvious.To the degree that it’s kind of embarrassing now,and I have NO idea why I’m posting it but whatever.

Probably have some unhelpful things, to say,but yeah…

I’ve gone into this before but let’s say it again, you don’t need to look like Brad Pitt, have a body like Arnie or have a well developed ‘Phallic vessel’ lol, love spells geared towards one person are very hit and miss because the girl in question needs to like you and let’s remember one important aspect here, she has free will just like we all do and if she doesn’t want you then your ritual will fail immediately because it takes two to tango my friend.

why bother trying to manipulate a girl, is this the basis for a strong relationship? no it’s not but let me tell you a failsafe love spell, cast a wide net to pull in as much female attention as possible and design the ritual to attract someone who is suitable for you, and then you will have many opportunities to take with the ladies. Trust me buddy, aiming your magical attention at one girl will only work when she also likes you and if there’s anything in the way, which need addressing then this will be delt with. In a situation like this, magic will blast through these elements and bring you closer together.

Romance starts because you and her either have gaps that need filling and you both have what each other wants, or you both have similar paths and likenesses which draws you together. If you understand this and base your magical operations around this psychology then you will attract someone suitable.