@Brightflame Please do not derail this thread with identity politics or moralising. If you feel a group, such as “men in general” has been attacked violating the rules, please use the flag system to request mod review.
However in this case “men” in general are not the subject, but a working to avoid certain types of people that are not the OPs personal preference. Please remember we have a rule for what we call “working threads” we do not derail those by questioning the OPs reasons or motives:
If you have something constructive to add that is on topic for the OP please feel free to post it! 