As a pornstar how to protect against manipulative energies

Honestly? In a practical sense, taking full control and responsibility for their career.

A great example is Nina Hartley. She owns herself, and as she got older she segued from porn into becoming a sex educator, holding safe sex workshops, helping people overcome their hangups, and learning to enjoy sex. She’s also an advocate for the pornography labour union, and a political activist.

Anyone involved in entertainment, be it porn, mainstream Hollywood, or the music industry, is open to manipulation, so the stronger sense of self and personal boundaries they have, the less likely they are to be influenced. Self awareness, ie knowing who you are, what you want, and more importantly, what you don’t want, is something that should be cultivated. It helps to resist things that are not in one’s best interest.

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I was considering that idea, but then you’re kinda bound to that spirit. At least an amulet can be removed. And anything that can help you can potentially hurt you as well. You gotta be sure you’re comfortable with it. Though, temporary tattoos might be an option.

You could just take up the sexy witch image.

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Perhaps. I’ve honestly never seen someone do that with a tattoo. I know EA has some tattoos which I believe he views as powerful symbols, but I’m not sure if he’s ever went as far as to imbue them with any power. The great thing about making amulets/talismans is that you in theory can use anything, although some objects will do a better job than others. This means that even something as simple as an earring or a nose stud could be used.

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Once mentioned a sathyr,a fetish,you create ,or make someone to do for you.obviosly you must pay for it bcse it’s a energy exchange the sathyr acts a. Barrier not really from dangers. But astral parasite,std.and not sure the word but like getting icky,or bad luck. icnt say exactly the method to prepare,it’s better tat talisman.tatto or stone.also do a bottle magick to bury around you company,work place, and you be allright.

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I think as occultists it’s worth widening this question to “how does anyone protect his/herself against occult energies/curses people may use banefully against them?

You don’t know what or who or how many you are warding against, so you need a catch all solution, preferably one that warns you there’s an issue or prevents it entirely, but also have backup plans to fix an emergent situation.

I started being attacked on occult forums the minute I showed up at a forum called Drink Deeply and Dream (now defunct) over two decade ago. In that case it was self styled “psi vamps” who thought an energy worker would make tasty pickings. These days it could be some professionally offended hothead in an aptly named “discord” server, a “baby witch” getting his knickers in a twist on tiktok or any number of places high on interaction and low in empathy and community.

Over the years I’ve developed a multi layered and multi disciplinary approach. It’s organically grown as I’ve added so many pieces as I tried out new ideas, I’m sure I’ve forgotten some of the structures I put in place. Some fade naturally if not maintained, and some don’t, some I check in on and top up from time to time.

So you might want to do that too, as an easier effort, simply add new protections as and when you come across techniques you like the look of. Start with one now, and it doesn’t feel like a lot of work to add more spread out over time and it’s all good experience. :slight_smile:

The parts can fall into some simple strategies:

  1. Know thyself. Know your energy.
    If you know who you are, and what your “baseline” energy is like, and cell tell when you’re “not yourself”, then right there is your early warning system for interference.

If you know why you feel what you do when you do, you will not be led willy nilly into emotional decisions. You will still have to make decisions heavy with emotion, but you will be aware of it and hopefully more aware of the options.

  1. Monitoring of your energy.
    Taoists and yoga/qigong practitioners often practice energy clearing every day as a health and longevity practice. Bringing yourself back to baseline and reviewing the energy changes in your body away from your grounded, peaceful norm helps you notice a situation brewing before it becomes an issue. Are you grumpy because you’re tired or because someone you know is grumpy and you picked up their energy … sleep or cleanse?
    Feedback is vital, you need it to make good descions.
    Divination can help with this.

With these in place, the first line of defence is… (imo)

  1. Protect your energy. Prevention is better than cure.
    This might not apply to you as you already have this, but 90 percent of the bullshit doesn’t get past a good dollop of common sense and healthy scepticism. The aim here is to not fall for tricks, for energy attacks to have no effect on your strong system: a lot of dross that doesn’t belong will flow away like water off a ducks back.

    • A strong body leads to a strong mind
    • Build your energy or light body
    • Have good relationship boundaries and standards and enforce them
    • Do not expose yourself to disturbing images without a good reason, and support yourself with compassion for any damage these thing do to your energy as it occurs.
    • Stay grounded to Earth and connected to the above.
    • Avoid environmental toxins in food and air as much as emotional/mental toxins in media
    • Important: Have no fear. Fear is weakening and opens holes for attack in a myriad of ways, be a bolshy SOB, let them call you arrogant, but do not be afraid.

Last but not least…

  1. Passive magickal structures for protection.
    Now you get to your magickal techniques against the not so average daily dross, ranging from deflecting intent to counteracting it. You can have these without knowing what your’re protecting but then it gets a bit hit and miss and if they don’t work you won’t know how or why.

    • Wards: shields around an area, such as your house and where you sleep
    • Shields around yourself (mirror and blocking)
    • Enlist the help of protective entities
    • Create protective servitors
    • Create decoys that will confuse an attack causing it to miss you
    • Bindings on the general energy of usury “do not see me”.
    • Boobytrap the decoys or shields to counter attack those with unwanted intent
    • Develop good relationships with common baneful entities: they will not attack you or you will recognise the energy and can talk to them first, maybe sending them back against the attacker.
  2. Active magickal measures.
    This is where the first two come in handy: know thyself. Then you will know what’s coming in, whether it needs divination or consultation with your allies or a simple fix.

    • On sensing a psychic attack, whether or not the passive measures are holding, you can choose to act, neutralise or ignore it and count on your cleansing to wash it off.
    • On sensing a curse, break it or return to sender
    • On sensing vampiric action, take back your energy double, or give them poisoned energy if you’re feeling mean
    • On sensing an attempt to dominate or punish you for being yourself, a bitchslap aka counter curse soothes the ego
    • On sensing a love/lust spell, ime these are messy and insidious because they’re made of distorted creative sexual energy and act like cancers, and usually have a vampiric, greedy and grasping aspect… (not judging, that’s what they have felt like to me on the receiving end of unwanted love spells: like a sickly overgrowth of energy for no reason) destroy the link(s) to your system, bind them from thinking of you, and bind their energy out of your life with a poppet freezer spell to block all interaction on every level of being. You place them in a cage, make them your neglected fly in a jar until the spell wears off and stops trying to regenerate: you get rid of these cancers by isolating and starving them.
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I think a good piece of advice would be to not sell one’s own belongings, or stuff that’s touched oneself, online. Like selling bath water, which is gross. I don’t think all people in the industry does this. I’m hoping it’s a minority. But stuff that’s mingled with you can be used to create a sympathetic link, which can be used to target you with spells.

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These two have got to take the medal.

Most of the unwanted messages I’ll receive are very love stricken vs just the average sexual requests…

Every now and than I’ll get a holier than thou critic or someone begging to tell me how everything I do is so evil or unworthy yada yada
So I included the protection from an attempt to “punish”

But mostly just these crazy heartbroken guys who expect me to just drop everything in my life and run off into the sunset on some stranger I don’t even know after they first message me.

I seriously don’t know what goes through some of their heads but there’s constant manipulative assaults on the heart chakra or my compass of “what my interests are” vs some interests that “arise yet seem foreign to me” like “these thoughts, attractions and likes aren’t mine” kinda thing.

Some of these guys try most outrageous acts violating my privacy to get me to marry or enter into some kind of relationship with them other than the services I provide. This even leads to them blackmailing on a few occasions to try and force a relationship. This is why I wouldn’t put magick past them even if they were a skeptic.

Very in depth and welcomed response. My only question is, if one of these thought manipulations got through my wards somehow and I was unable to distinguish from it because of accidentally incorporating it into my daily life then how would I go about washing myself clean of it? Just the average sage and repeat? Or something more in depth like a body mind meditative cleansing with the whole shibbob, stones, bath salts incense and all?

Also I luv the fact that you brought up servitors. There’s got to be a way to design one that can devour unwanted thought manipulation. :thinking:. Like a little vacuum cleaner guy but fiercer.

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Protective symbols and wards placed on yourself via drawing or tattoos or your placing them on astral body or aura.

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Hi there! :)) I got the love magick book and turns out there’s a section that adresses help with sex workers as well, in that branch - It says "Naamah is the demoness of prostitution - Erotic performers can invoke Naamah to teach them how to make their profession a spiritual practice. Her carnal prowess imparts initiatory gnosis, transforming the body, mind, and spirit of the practitioner through the act of union. By partaking in her gnosis, a sexual professional can imbue a subtle initiatory dimension into their craft.
Naamah can be invoked to enhance the safety and success of sexual professions. She has walked beside sex workers for millenia, aiding them in the shadows whether they are revered or downthrodden.

I have worked with her myself and , she’s an amazing ally and alchemist to have even in a very general sense to master your sexual energies in it’s own unique ways.

(There is also extra gnosis about her, that is great to enquire to you know what extra options you may ask - I will add things that I often ask to spirits myself that get me to sleep better in this Cosmos :slight_smile: )

Something I would advise for example, is to have a sigil, a red candle and an enn.

Usually I love to do it in the dark, especially in nature if possible, if you have a safe place to do it.

A. lighting the red candle,

B. draw the sigil (sigil in link above) for yourself on a clean paper to “metaphysically open” the gateway the sigil represents - great combo with the candle that is already on - and you can say Naamah, by this sigil do I wish to call you forth. (optionally you can add a drop of your blood on the paper - which you can burn at the end of the ritual to release your intent - I personally advise to use a diabetes-testing pen, because it doesn’t damage your body and is quite painless and fast- I got one myself for 5 dollars at a pharmacy - why the blood? because it unifies your alliance with that spirit in an even deeper way, which can help you eternally, for the better, should whether you do or don’t operate in this specific profession)

C.reading the enn, and speaking it into the flame (the flame is a multidimensional gateway to anywhere in the cosmic mind.

Reayha Bacana Lyan Reme Quim Naamah, about 9 times is extremely powerful as a metaphysical effect. and you very, very much also might wish to add this also- what it does is opening your consciousness in hyper specific ways that empower you to delightfully.

D. Looking into the candle - You can ask the following:

to realease curses and bindings unto yourself,

remove all parasitic & toxic influences,

self-empowerment to the ultimate she can offer (helps you transcend your pitfalls) & gain massive supernatural skills.

Full protection

Automated self-defence to any degree necessary, (because it’s literally not just earth you stand in but the cosmos as well, and she’s extremely just so, she’ll know what to do with the intentions of others, adequately)

To help you always be alright and always thrive

To be well respected

Guidance…

All this will help you sleep better,

all the practical stuff like getting payed better, social interactions as well, are things she can help with, and she’s a good friend to talk to as well to say hoow you feel about things and if she has ay solutions for you on anything you ask or wish to know - communication with her is relationship-deepening, also, in energetic terms which is amazing - for it also helps you in discerning her specific energy better- and thus your own intuition … :slight_smile: of course, since it is an aspect of your own cosmic consiousness it’s great to have a great relationship to her.

Optionally, though she’ll already be with you after doing that - calling her forth during or before a sexual act or , right before, during an orgasm can be seriously empowering…integrating as well.

E. You can (burn the sigil’s paper to release the intent) and then go your way to enjoy yourself. :slight_smile:

This should help you like crazy :))

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That’s a toughie, because when the one instrument you need to recognise there’s an issue, your mind, is compromised you’re basically some level of insane and your mind has lost touch with your manifested reality. This is 99 percent not the case, though. If you read love and lust spells, they’re very narrow minded and one dimensional, the intention reflects the stuck energy of the caster, and even when they’re not meant to be, imo they cannot affect the spirit.

What you need is more information before making any decisions and the time to get that unhindered.

The part about knowing yourself really well comes in here. So something I also do is compartmentalise: when something like this is influences, there’s mismatches and conflict within, as not your whole being is affected at once, and the effect is always weird in a way that natural feelings are not. Like saccharine vs real sugar, there’s a fake feel that you probably want to ignore, but it’s there.

Worldview: I see humans as “aggregate beings” having multiple minds: the animal, the heart, the intellectual/conscious ego and the spirit/subconscious, and the process of ascension aligns and integrates them all into a whole, or holy, being.

So this division works out to be very helpful, if you can step back and take an observer’s view, intellectual, birds eye view, then when you have no reason and it doesn’t make sense for you to feel a certain way, and you can’t explain it, you can see the conflicts and mismatches, that you are not wholly of one mind, and that is probably due to unseen forces influencing some parts of your being and not others.

People say “the heart wants what the heart wants” as if that was an excuse to give up all responsibility and common sense. I prefer not to do that, I must understand exactly why I feel what I do and I do not make decisions until I an aligned.

So when you’re feeling desire, love, obsession over some random you just met, and you have no common goals, values, no bonding time spent, no dates, no flattery, weird comments from them maybe, a feeling of disquiet, 2nd guessing yourself, feeling something is wrong, it’s time to pat the heart’s mind on the heat like a demanding spoiled child that you’re nevertheless very fond of, and say “not right now”. You’re not saying “no” yet, which avoids direct conflict and a tantrum, you’re waiting until you can get more information.

At that point with yourself under control you do your divinations, check in on servitors and protections, test the suspect for his motivations and true feelings, and give it time to develop while watching the situation’s energy flows play out.

Something else I will do, is I will get books like the one suggested above and read it like a tactical war manual. Know your enemy. Get a feel for the energy in each spell (weapon) and you can start to tell: did they send Asmoday, did they do a pink candle spell, is there an Intranquil spirit involved?

Do summon and have a stern word with any spirit that mistakenly allowed itself to get involved in your business: it’s got human permission that you as another human can override and revoke. As the defender you have the high ground so this is much easier than casting. A good dollop of furious indignance is a great energy for this. :smiley: “How fucking dare they?” It’s also not sexy and the caster may pick this up and lose thier boner from it lol.

And at the end of the day you can always ask your higher self to intervene, explain, and fix it. It’s never affected by these low vibrational motivations. If there is some kind of spiritual connection that’s a whole other thing, but making new ones is a choice in each moment.

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@Hermes @Mulberry thank you guys for really caoming through :black_heart::black_heart::black_heart: and every one else’s replies as well. I’ve been working with Naamah more so really than any other entity in the industry and have been meaning to consecrate an amulet intended for her …

This this motivated me to get off my a$$ and finally do it :rofl:

So far it’s done well for mindfulness and just good luck :crossed_fingers:. I’ll let u guys know any other benefits as they come. First day wearing of many.

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Wow my left nipple really showed on that :person_facepalming::person_facepalming::person_facepalming::rofl:

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@Undying.Embers Cold Pointy Special lol :laughing: :yum: :joy:

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PSA

Re:

can ppl use your star sign to do a spell on you ?

@Meta I’m not picking on you, and you may not have meant “can I do a spell on you personally?”, (English can be a pretty ambiguous language) but as this comes across as ambiguously worded and we’re having problems across the board with people not understanding this rule receltly, I’m going to borrow it to make a reminder:

we ask as all new members NOT to do readings, rituals or spells on this forum for 90 days while you build some reputation here.

(You yourself can offer services after Dec 28th.)

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Please everyone read the rules. We are having a lot of new members recently and it seems almost no one reads the them, resulting in unnecessary increased in mod activity and ruffled feathers. It would be a happier place if new people tried to respect the community have buit here and managed themselves rather than need it to be enforced.

We will have to close accounts if you can’t keep them, they’re not too complicated, and very reasonable, and I recommend everyone read through them at least one to get the gist of how we work here. Thanks.

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Speaking of wards, I saw this ring the other day and thought it would be good for that sort of thing.

Being covered in eyes implies a certain vigilance

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Omg is that an evil eye ring :scream::scream::scream::heart_eyes:!!!

I’m a dork, so it kinda makes me think of the thousand eyes idol from Yu-Gi-Oh…

Alternatively, maybe a ring from a “biblically accurate angel” (baby form biblically accurate angel?)

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Any updates? :slight_smile:

Very cool amulet :slight_smile:

p.s. Maybe you’ve done that too but, spirits in nature are superb to experience,
especialyl in terms of self-allowance, discernment, and grounding of energies - anything you need, they can help you with. including grounding, etc… ) :)) if needed… :))

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Heyyy I’m glad you asked!!!. So far I’m doing great.
Made 4 amulets, one for each sister of sacred prostitute

Naamah
Lilith
Agrat
And Eisheth

They must be doing something right lol because my calendar is literally booked spaceless every day every hour :hot_face::hot_face::hot_face:.

I’ve been having great success in this working and gaining thousands of followers but sadly it’s been taking away my forum time as well as free time in general :sob:.

I guess that’s the selling your soul part so to speak but I’m here for it. Let your dreams consume you and Live passionately!!!

Nature spirits you say? Hmmm I dabbled in animism and came across a very healing spirit named Mobius. He looked very alien and ancient.

How do you relate to these spirits? Do u have any daily practices you’d recommend?

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Amazing thread, very insightful

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