Anyone here have any spirit lovers that ARENT succubi/incubi

Remember what? You mentioned nature but in reference to what? @Maxwell

No Nymphs are just that female spirits, the male counterpart to Nymphs are Satyrs.

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Well maybe she isn’t a nymph specifically then. Her energy feels femmine And she appears as female in my mind’s eye…but some of our interactions would make me think otherwise…I’m not getting into detail about said interaction…but should be pretty obvious. Unless I’m being clueless.

Maybe she’s just some other type of nature spirit. Dunno. That doesn’t make sense though, all times where she did visit me in a dream (wasn’t many but I had requested her to) she was a female.

Argh! Call me frustrated.

Or maybe you’re overcomplicating this but eh.

This topics just gonna get awkward if I continue but I’m confused for legitimate reasons. Female spirits cant have s** the way male spirits can… Or provide the sensation since it’s not physical.

And I’ve felt stuff before. So I’m confused.

She had nature as one of her elemental… She just felt like nature and you were like “no”

ok.

Was this referring to a reading or something? I’ve had input that she worked well with nature or something, but that everyone AND myself (although I need to work on my senses obviously) had sensed dark energy and that she was a succubi.

I was aware that I had a guide that was fae, but was pretty sure she wasn’t at the time.

It may help to define what you mean by “lovers”. I have relations with Hel, Pele, and Hecate that could fit that, but I wouldn’t classify it anything like the “traditional” ubi relationship. They ARE relationships that sometimes go that way, but aren’t the main focus. Maybe I missed it, but could you clarify that for us?

Note - I have a succubus, but it’s as much about companionship as anything else. Maybe that needs some clarification, too?

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By lover I mean : a relationship based on love, companionship, trust, respect, etc. - so basically alot like an human romantic relationship but with a spirit.

My lover is most likely a nymph/fae (which is why I made the thread, to see if anyone had similar experiences besides succubi/Incubi of course).

I thought she was a succubus. I’m in what I consider to be a serious long term relationship with her.

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That would be fair. We’re mostly indoctrinated that God/esses are “above” that sort of thing. So, it must be “lesser” spirits that are engaged in it.

One of the most forgiving, least-selfish spirits I engage with is my succubus. But I asked Lilith directly (through evocation) for her.

Some people consider Pele a Goddess in her own right. Some consider her an Elemental (Goddess), because, according to lore, she is the very embodiment of FIRE itself. All and none of them are true. But she isn’t Infernal, nor Angelic, as I’ve experienced both. She’s more elemental than Hecate, but infinitely more complex and advanced than the elementals I interact with from here in Hawaii. She’s not a land spirit, which I also interact with. So, what is she?

She is Pele. I interact with her the same as I do with any other higher order being. I sing to her as I do with the other Goddesses I honor. And she interacts with me as the others do, whether they’re Infernal, Angelic, etc…

If your lover treats you as you’d like to be treated and you treat that lover with respect, if there’s an equal give-and-take and those God/desses view this entity as beneficial, then that really is all that matters, right? Higher order beings will not accept a parasite as an equal, if it isn’t a lesson.

Just my opinion.

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Well said, I agree.

My relationship is still pretty young with my lover (coming up to a 1 year anniversary) but I have deep feelings for her, as well as a desire to be in a long term relationship.

I didn’t ask anyone for her though.

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Nein

Other than my two ubi I have a kitsune lover

I am curious as how you met this kitsune spirit? Not often I hear about these.

Well I got my two from the Creepyhollows site (yes I know people here seem to not like it, but in my experiences it was fine and my experiences have been real and I have confirmed that they are in fact Kistune).

If anyone wants to exchange reads on each other’s spirit lovers feel free to PM me.

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You can always pm me if you want. Id be up for that.

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Very interesting question :+1:t2:. My own experience in this field :revolving_hearts: is with a guardian angel :smiling_face_with_three_hearts: , but I know that there’s a book with interviews. There, folks describe their relationships with all sorts of spirits, and yes, including a faery. It’s called Spirit Marriage: Intimate Relationships with Otherworldly Beings – maybe you can find what you seek there.

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