Hey guys long story short is I joined two magical lodges last year. I wanted to meet people who were similarly minded and maybe get some new friends.
The two lodges are very different one features affluent people, more educated people and generally more welcoming people in general. I have made friends there who have been supportive and that have come to my home. This lodge seems to deal with more white magick.
The other one features poorer people, less educated people who have decided to better themselves using magick and mostly dark magick. These people tend to have more connections or at least more willing to share their connections and knowledge than the other one. However, they are not as friendly as the first lodge. If that makes any sense.
Anyway, at the second lodge there is a man has not accomplished much, three kids with three different women, in debt, ugly, fat etc. Anyway, we would speak quite regularly at meetings and also on the phone. He started to make moves I told him it would never work out and told him that I am in a committed relationship (a lie, I’m single). I honestly don’t even like him as a friend but I do recognize his magical knowledge and have bounced a few ideas off him.
Anyhow, he needed a favour job wise and I helped him to land the job through a connection I had there no easy feat as the dude only has a GED. This job required a degree and the previous post holder had an ivy league education. My contact respects my opinion and so he got the job. Anyway, I felt the gratitude was lacking. So I decided this was the last straw and I decided to scale down communication with this loser. However, I strongly suspect this dude has been throwing magic my way attempting to get me to like him. He left me a salty voice message and I had a dream with him kissing me while I was in bed. I almost told my contact to deny him the job BUT I thought it was risky he may have been suspicious. The guy also told me he did some heavy magick to get the job too. Weirdly too my contact within the organization and I had a little tiff so there was that too. I have had a strong professional relationship with this man for YEARS and I found it so odd that we had a tiff after asking for a favour for this guy. Maybe this guy is simply filled with bad energy?
I am wondering what do you guys think I should do against this guy magickally or what are your opinions in general. Am I over-thinking? I should add I am thinking about leaving the lodge with that dude. Maybe even exiting the other one too, sometimes I am just tired of humans. Fellow magicians seems to have more complexities too, I was a one person lodge for years and was doing ok.