Alright man, I had issues with that too but I was lead (by Belial no less) back to the authority sense I had lost for a minute.
All my best rituals happened when I spoke to the spirits as if I had the divine right to talk to them.
Everything in existence responds to two things: Mutual Respect, and Authority.
Before I go deeper in I’ll say that these spirits readily show their power in the same way a rockstar will readily get on stage and shred the hell out of their instrument. Very similar draw actually.
Don’t make the mistake of “hoping it works” because self fulfilling prophecy is a thing and they manifest the way you expect them to. If a religious church lady were to somehow call on one she’d encounter something as terrifying as she’s expect it to be.
If you expect them to show up in a comely form that’s tactful, they’ll be tactful.
Calling on them and asking them to perform gives their existence a meaning. It’s like your life mission, you just have to do it and nobody has to offer you a damn thing to get you involved with what makes you come alive.
They need it and are very determined, even eager to show their power.
Keep in mind if you call on them and make arrangements without authority you might find yourself subject to their will.
I am indeed friends with my patron spirits, yet it’s within the power structure I set out. I am the king, ruler, emperor of my existence and they are my Royal Guard. There is absolutely zero conditional offerings. I simply show what I can offer and give generously without expectation as a reward.
The power split cannot be denied. Think of any human relationship you’ve seen. They’re equal, yet one person is always more reactive to the situation than the other. The happiest relationships I’ve ever seen/been in are where the dude is leading the dance and the girl follows giddily because she gets to be feminine. It gets fucked up when he doesn’t respect her and …well that’s where feminism came from. Lose respect and people go to war with their own nature and tell you it’s your fault.
Lead the dance. Command Demons. Yet treat them with the respect you would a king. Doing this makes you a God in that moment and reality yields to your will. …do you see how this works?
Remember Azazel’s quote to EA. “The hierarchy of the infernal empire is as follows: You, and everything else in existence.”
They want a strong leader on the corporeal plane, just as women (also yin conciousness, think about this) will obsessively want a man they can’t control. Someone who has a reality so strong they want to tame it. They just get fucked over a lot because exciting can also mean being a total asshole. Think of how many go back to some ass who beats them though… The power of authority. It’s so strong some seek to transcend it and yet nobody can rob nature and get away with it.
This applies to demons. They will readily and eagerly serve a magician who speaks to them as a God. If you try to transaction a relationship with a girl she’ll play games with you eventually. If you excite the hell out of her and treat her like a woman while also making her feel her value?
She’ll die for a man like that…
How eager do you want your Royal Guard to respond? Are they even your guard? Are they your master? Are they just “friends?” Or are you a great and loved leader they’ll fall in line for and readily serve with Intelligence, foresight, and dignity because you play the part of one who deserves such treatment?
This took a while for me to figure out. How do you think Solomon talked to them? You have the infernal empire ready to come when called, ready to show their power, ready to move the earth for you and yet you want to move from the throne room to your dining room to “maybe see if they could do something for you?”
Lift your head up, treat them as grand Kings, Dukes, and Earls in your Divine Empire, and command as an omnipotent being.
There’s a God in you