Stuff is disposable and largely irrelevant, family and loved ones are far more important.
They’re genuinely afraid for you, so I’d respect that, explain that I did not see things the way they did and that my intentions weren’t evil or whatever, however that I am also going to think deeply about their concerns, and invite them to discuss this at some future point when things have calmed down.
Then I’d go build an astral temple and figure out how to operate without tools, and keep that to myself.