Some general advice:
Never try to please others, please yourself. Trying to please others is an unwinnable game, pleasing yourself is more productive, if someone doesnāt like your method of operation, they have no rightful place in your life and should be cut away like a diseased limb. As Iāve told many over the years, internal satisfaction can never be found through external sources. In order to live joyously, you must ruthlessly and mercilessly embrace yourself and what makes you in the core of your being tick, you are the center of your universe, as we all are, and if you fight who and what you are to please some ignorant meatbags, then youāre only hurting yourself and inhibiting your spiritual growth. Making others feel bad for doing what is natural to their existence is a tool of weaklings that like tricking people in to weakening themselves, embrace your self and embrace your strength with no hesitation or remorse. Best of luck on your path.
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Thanksā:smiling_face_with_three_hearts:
Sorry to dissapoint you, but youāre not 
Iād say, accept your mother the way she is, she loves you. Your situation isnāt hopeless and wonāt last forever. Accept it, then you will be free.
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