The hard part with these kinds of rituals is forgetting about it. That is usally when they kick off full blast.
You can do a multilayer ritual with many aspects but if you cant let it go its kinda like trying to shoot a cannonball with a chain attached to the cannon while its bolted to the ground. Its not goin anywhere.
One way you can get around this is do break your goal into chunks and do workings once a week for each. Then remember what you did will not be as much of an issue cause the ritual you did a day ago quickly turns into the ritual you did 30 days ago.
Small tip from BMoA regarding the lamps of fate section.