Thank you for posting this! I agree to everything you said above. To be honest here I feel that those (from a personal experience) do have a tendency to forget that they are here on a “common ground” called being human. That also means that we will make mistakes and have areas that will need a bit of work to be done on it.
I remember some people I knew in real life that their marriage with spirits made them basically these “goddesses” that can get what ever they want. Honestly it just made me not want to even talk about stuff to them. They were basically so blind that they lost almost complete loss of reality. Just like any thing els in life, we can experience an obsession with spirits and especially with marriage to one. One even went as far as to believe that they were the “true” one for them.
Honestly it‘s grate to see this post and just a reminder about this stuff. Everyone is going to experience a different experience with that same spirit as the others and that’s ok. Something els to also add. Just because one person is experiencing something a bit differently does not make them wrong. What goes on between spirit A and person A is just that. If they choose to share then grate! But one the things I feel should never leave the table is respect. It’s hard especially if they are just coming out with it. There is a difference between a troll and a legit relationship.
So while some may seem “ignorant” they are learning a lesson through this and at times I feel by going that next step with that person, some times I feel it is a test to see their true authentic colors. When we work very close with spirit A for a while, naturally you’ll develop some type of relationship. So person A may seem like a very nice, generous and warm person. But as soon as they get into that type of relationship all the sudden it’s me, I and myself.
I to had a few personal relationships with some spirits and let me tell you, they don’t play easy. In fact I look at it like the Greek stories on how people like Hercules had to go through all those trials despite being half god. It showed that even a son of Zeus did not have it easy. In fact more was expected of him at times because Zeus knew he had that potential.
So definitely a yes on just because your married does not make you get the golden ticket. It does not make you all powerful and all knowing. If you have connections with some spirits already in life just know you may have worked your butt off for them.
A quote I want to share from another thread from this forum that I feel goes nicely.