lmao 
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You going after his mom? as in seducing his mom? lol j/k
I donāt rob cradles or change diapers.lol
Iām calling bull on this.
I was very, very clear with all three of my exes.
āStop using āautisticā as an insult; my best friend has autism and thatās really mean.ā He did it anyway. Thankfully she wasnāt there to overhear it.
āCould you please stop checking your watch? It makes me feel like youāre not paying attention and donāt care.ā He did it anyway, during a very important conversation, and couldnāt understand why it bothered me.
āIf you break one more promise or lie to me one more time, Iām done.ā He did both and then stalked me when I dumped him for lying and breaking a promise that was really important to me.
Iām crystal clear on what my needs are. But I have yet to meet a man who respected me enough to meet any of them.
You calling me hating the chase bull? well, you are wrong. I donāt chase ladies. If they make it hard. I just move on along to better pasture. They are not my #1 priority in life. Iām not the norm. Sure I put effort to get to know people that Iām interested in. If ladies donāt communicate clearly, the friendship will end. You canāt go further if there isnāt talk going on among you two. And yet every lady i talk to complain about why they canāt find a good person. Itās cuz they play games and donāt tell clearly their needs. They donāt establish a common ground for the friendship/relationship. They donāt talk about it. They just assume as time goes by that it will flourish on itās own. Most people canāt have a heart to heart talk when itās opposite gender. They canāt discuss what they want or clarify each otherās feelings or needs.They always go the avoidance route.
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Not at all, I hate the chase myself. Iām an āif youāre interested, just tell me and stop forcing me to guessā person.
Iām calling bull on the idea that women donāt communicate their needs.
Scoff all you like, but I state my needs clearly, have zero patience for games (way too much work), and once asked a serious boyfriend why he didnāt just tell me something was bothering him (he refused to communicate his needs at all and blew up at me when I unknowingly did something that annoyed himā¦and he refused to explain why he wouldnāt just talk to me! He works in the mental health field, so he knows better).
This may be why Iām often told Iām ānot like other womenā (whatever the hell thatās supposed to mean, apart from the fact that you wonāt see me wearing Uggs, drinking a PSL, or going anywhere near a club unless thereās a really good rock band playing).
I disagree with the notion that all women are identical in this regard. None of my friends are like this either. Neither is my sister-in-law (you can guess why my brother had the good sense to snap her up).
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Your like me. Donāt like games and bull . haha. You would think people actually use their brains to communicate some simple words since itās up in their heads. Yet most are reacting base on triggered emotions. Itās like they canāt go beyond their emotions and get traumatized or trance about it to act wrongly.
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Yeah, zero patience for that stuff. I also hate drama (and unlike basic chicks who āhate dramaā and secretly thrive on it, I actually mean that).
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Art of seduction is a good one.
Pua kind of go too far i to fake it till you make it. Just attach the tips and teick they use onto your personality.
learn the knowledge from ā the elipsis manual by chase hughes and you can tailor the skills to seduction or any purpose. I recommend that book. It covers lots of info that PUA materials donāt cover. Good book to cover a whole range of area for social communication interaction influence. Main focus is body language which rarely are taught in depth like this book. And itās very affordable. Not like those few grand training from pua trainers that donāt give you much other than raping your wallet dry.