Ima comment here bc as a woman who’s felt this way, this can feel like being kicked when you’re down
That’s not the intention…
I had to learn the hard way… nobody but ME can do what it takes to get back an ex… and keep them
I can get all the assistance I want - from asking people or spirits
I will simply fuck up what I get and be worse off than when I began however… if I don’t take responsibility and action on the advice and support I get
Zero point me looking for easier options than myself… it’s just a short term fix that leads to more pain eventually
Only I can take full responsibility for my own happiness
It repels anything else (Especially partners!) you expect to take that responsibility for you